"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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floydtheater07

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Usually I am ok with dealing with situations such as this, but yesterday something happened, which I am a little confused over.

Late at night, a friend IMed me inviting me to her house to a party. She said "S" wanted me there. "S" is my ex. Earlier that day, her and I had been talking on AIM and she was laughing at all my little jokes (well, if "lol" and "hahahaha" counts as real laughing). But when I got to the party, she payed very little attention to me (though, in all fairness, I payed very little attention to her). Now, I had just decided to stop taking my medication, so I was acting really jittery and nervous, so it may have been in my head. Then later, when we were sitting at the table and talking to other people, she woud occasionally move her legs, causing her feet to touch mine. Trying to show confidence, I did not move my legs away. Instead, I just left them there. In turn, she left hers there. This continued throughout the evening, and might suggest some very minor kino.


I am generally asking if her behavior suggested that she was interested, disinterested, or neutral.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oakraiderz2

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Dont sugar coat it, we're not youre mommy. You like her and want her back...am i right? If so, attract her and take care of business.
 

floydtheater07

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Dont sugar coat it, we're not youre mommy. You like her and want her back...am i right? If so, attract her and take care of business.
Hmm, I didn't sugar coat it. Of course I want her back, or else I wouldn't care either way if she was interested.
 

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HAHA Oakraiderz got owned again!!! stop telling people to just do it, that's nike's job!

I could give you more, but it would all by my inferences.

She likes you.

yes she likes you.

Her/your friend knows it too.

this is crap, why am I even responding?

The footsies is good, but you did nothing, which is why oakraiderz called you out, you don't like her enough if you won't initiate any of the kino and attention.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
HAHA Oakraiderz got owned again!!! stop telling people to just do it, that's nike's job!

...ok, owned again...right
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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floydtheater07

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
HAHA Oakraiderz got owned again!!! stop telling people to just do it, that's nike's job!

I could give you more, but it would all by my inferences.

She likes you.

yes she likes you.

Her/your friend knows it too.

this is crap, why am I even responding?

The footsies is good, but you did nothing, which is why oakraiderz called you out, you don't like her enough if you won't initiate any of the kino and attention.
Thanks. I didn't specify though, that, at the party, she barely spoke to me, and was usually faced away from me. When we did speak, she didn't seem to be excited or anything.

That may just have been the fact that it is awkward to be around an ex. Who knows.
 
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