PART V - MISTAKES AND INSIGHTS

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"Mistakes are always forgivable as long as you have the courage to admit them" - Bruce Lee

1. Never create rapport before attraction
2. At any point in your life, one woman should not be the sole focus of your game
3. Never go the extra mile for a woman
4. Infatuation begins due to a chemical called PEA - Phenethylamine.
5. PEA creates flight or fight response associated with love and causes the emotional high. Limited options associate all your PEA towards one woman.
6. Apart from this, you can like a woman due to basic psychological principles - scarcity, flakiness, withholding sex, jealousy.
7. Learn when to cut your losses early to focus on investments with higher returns, namely yourself and sex with other women
8. Attention is the male equivalent of sex. Your response to lack of intimacy should be to withdraw attention and excuse yourself entirely.
9. Never supplicate a woman's needs for access to her sexuality.
10. Never change your own being to accommodate her interests
11. In her mind if you succumb to her ego, you can be broken by anyone
12. Any change you implement for another person immediately loses its significance as soon as that person loses their significance in your life.
13. Inner ambition should be your ultimate self improvement motto
14. Always limit your reinforcer attention and resort to disinterest and aloofness when in doubt.
15. Always establish higher value by being less available than she is.
16. Never tell a girl directly that you like her, if she remains an object of desire she will never chase you
17. By not telling a girl you like her, you communicate to yourself that she's not special and cultivate an abundance mentality. Even if you have, stay disinterested and game other women.
18. By jumping from woman to woman and overtly communicating interest you avoid allowing things to progress naturally and find someone you actually like.
19. Err on the side of aloof and disinterested than overeager
20. What is scarce is always valuable.
21. Only date girls who are interested in you.
22. If a girl's interest levels are low, don't fall in the trap of rationalising her behaviour.
23. DUMP HER if her interest levels aren't high enough
24. Ignore AMOGs. Her investment in you is high enough to consider them trivial. If she sways, thank him internally to save you from a hoe.
25. "Hey man, we were waiting for you to hit on her. Go ahead and spit your game" is the best response to an aggressive AMOG
26. You can befriend and neutralise a guy trying to tool you.
27. Never use overt ultimatums, subcommunicate them by acting as a man with options. Ask yourself "what would a man with 5 girls chasing him do?"

 

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My favorite pieces:
08. Attention is the male equivalent of sex.
13. Inner ambition should be your ultimate self-improvement motto
19. Err on the side of aloof and disinterested than overeager
13. DUMP HER if her interest levels aren't high enough
27. Ask yourself "what would a man with 5 girls chasing him do?"

Dating would be so much simpler if we didn't stick around when interest level starts heading south of 60% to the land of no return. Particularly, when she stalls with hot/cold tactics while she works hard on securing the next branch.

Cut losses and reward plates with higher interest level and investment in you.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Dating would be so much simpler if we didn't stick around when interest level starts heading south of 60% to the land of no return. Particularly, when she stalls with hot/cold tactics while she works hard on securing the next branch.

Cut losses and reward plates with higher interest level and investment in you.

I'm glad you got my point, it's insanely easy to talk with someone who is redpilled and already gets it.

I'm reading The Black Flag and taking notes for behavioural reconditioning.

Stay tuned.