"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PART III C - EXTERNAL GAME (SOCIAL PROOF)

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"Very few men are wise by their own counsel or learned by their own teachings, for he that was only taught by himself had a fool for a master" - Ben Johnson


Social proof in simple terms is a man's social worth, that men follow him and women like him.


In short, it means being a leader of men preselected by women.


Guidelines to develop social proof:

  • Never qualify yourself for being around people
  • Approach without being too eager
  • Eject from a set in time when blown off
  • Kill that ego to eject and approach easily
  • Disarm jerks trying to get into your set by trying to qualify them or subtly negging them. You can even compliment him to make him want to earn more of your affection
  • Never be in any uncomfortable physical situation if you can choose otherwise
  • Live in a mentality that you have options, even if you don't, soon enough you will
  • Any position that gives off the semblance of eagerness reduces social value
  • Looking hesitant reduces social proof
  • Audacity is an art, balance your eagerness and your hesitance. It's okay to err on the side of eagerness.
  • Manoeuver around awkward situations than jump into them
  • Getting the blessing of an older woman would instantly make you an alpha
  • At a bar buy the bartender a shot
  • Game men and women you aren't competing with to develop proof
  • Unite groups and merge sets
  • When a group is indecisive about a choice, take up the power vacuum
  • Talking negatively about others always reduces social proof
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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