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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Flying smaller planes at shorter distances in order to gain experience is fine, but not bigger jets like this one, with passengers. At the very least there should have been an experienced co-pilot present. I believed both pilots lacked experience and shouldn't have been flying passengers.That's why you don't trust 20 years olds to fly planes. Not enough experience in "oh sh!t" conditions.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
@Plinco , the main pilot who was flying the plane was Captain Jeffrey Gregory.I believed both pilots lacked experience and shouldn't have been flying passengers.
I heard the co-pilot was 20 years old, but the pilot was 55.That's why you don't trust 20 years olds to fly planes. Not enough experience in "oh sh!t" conditions.
BITG, I am curious where you're getting your information? I have been listening all morning to interviews with Air Traffic Control and NTSB and this is what has been confirmed:No that's wrong...she was the pilot, the co-pilot was 55. She has been piloting since she was 17 apparently.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
They didn't "experience" severe turbulence. They willingly flew into it. They did the very same thing back in May and decided to change altitude drastically without requesting the change. Very, very bad thing to do, and quite illegal. The tower called them out on it and the girl replied, "we were just going to call you". Twice this girl minimized the level of turbulence to the tower and the tower had to correct her to say it was severe turbulence. This is not effective communications. In fact it's anything but. It was outrageously careless of both of them.@Plinco , the main pilot who was flying the plane was Captain Jeffrey Gregory.
His Bio:
Captain Jeffrey Gregory had approximately 20 years of aviation experience.
His certifications and experience details:
- Certificates: He held an Airline Transport Pilot (ATP) certificate—issued by the FAA in October 2021—with ratings to operate multiple jet types, including the Learjet 60.
- Flight Instruction: He became a certified flight instructor (CFI) for single-engine and multi-engine aircraft in April 2025.
- Aviation Background: He previously worked as a pilot for charter and aviation companies, including East Coast Jets in Allentown, Pennsylvania (2016–2017), and was a former member of an Allentown aviation company.
- No one knows what truly happened yet other than they experienced severe turbulence due to thunderstorms, lightning, high winds etc.
I'm wondering if the plane was hit by lightning? I listened to the full audio tape (chilling) and the co-pilot (the 20 year old) was communicating with Air Traffic Control quite effectively, the flight was going very well despite light turbulence until very very suddenly the plane began descending at approx 10,000 to 27,000 feet per minute until it hit the ground.
Such a sad and tragic situation. A family was on board (parents and their two young children). 9 people total. RIP.
Oh damn...I stand corrected...for some reason either skimming over this or in an earlier article from yesterday I thought it said she was the pilot because they talked at length about her and nothing about the actual pilot.BITG, I am curious where you're getting your information? I have been listening all morning to interviews with Air Traffic Control and NTSB and this is what has been confirmed:
>>"The captain and pilot in command of the Learjet 60 that crashed in Greenacres, Florida, on November 1, 2026, was Jeff Gregory (55), and the co-pilot was Nathalia Gadelha Filgueir (20)."<<
Ok thanks for this^^. Interesting.They didn't "experience" severe turbulence. They willingly flew into it. They did the very same thing back in May and decided to change altitude drastically without requesting the change. Very, very bad thing to do, and quite illegal. The tower called them out on it and the girl replied, "we were just going to call you". Twice this girl minimized the level of turbulence to the tower and the tower had to correct her to say it was severe turbulence. This is not effective communications. In fact it's anything but. It was outrageously careless of both of them.
So we have two pilots who were not qualified to handle this plane, and not qualified to communicate with ATC properly. This is what gets people killed. This plane is a huge handful in any kind of turbulence due to its small wing area, the wing sweepback and the T-tail, all of which combine to make it very touchy. It's real easy to let this plane get away from you. I think a 20 year old flying this plane is absurd. Even if she wasn't at the controls, the copilot often takes the controls during a flight, and of course if anything were to happen to the pilot, she would be responsible for bringing this very squirrelly plane in safely.
This was easily avoidable. Simply don't fly into bad weather. Go around it. They were already dead when they decided to fly over it as these meteorlogical conditions can easily rise to 50,000 - 60,000 feet easily. The maximum service altitude of this plane is about 51,000 feet.
We pilots call this syndrome "Get there itis".This is tunnel vision which makes one think they absolutely have to get there at a certain place and at an exact time. We pilots are actually thoroughly trained about this very thing. The ice definitely took them down, and this is one plane I'd hate to be in with ice. So many fatals are preventable by exercising common sense.
Correct.I heard the co-pilot was 20 years old, but the pilot was 55.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.