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same thinking here broItsOnNow said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Out Of Your League Girl
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Same here. And she isn't even that hot. Chicks like her are a dime a dozen (some guys gotta get out more). She might have a chance of being special if she has a pleasant personality. Obviously not.Warrior74 said:
A chick acting like she's out of your league is a perfect candidate for having her b!tchy frame reflected back on herself. Then you just sit back and enjoy her comical attempt of qualifying herself to you. You guys know how to tease a child when she thinks she has something really cool & special and wants you to know that, right? Adults never take kids seriously in those situations and just play along & tease them.
A couple of years ago I was running some clumsy game on this chick who I thought was out of my league, and of course failed miserably. I met her a few months ago and slapped myself on the forehead: "THIS is the one I thought was out of my league? WTF was I thinking?" Funnily enough she is busy trying to get my attention now.
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"She's average, she's not that hot, etc."
Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
The fact you guys are so offended is an indication you couldn't pull a girl like that.
So quit lying to yourselves and face reality.
Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
The fact you guys are so offended is an indication you couldn't pull a girl like that.
So quit lying to yourselves and face reality.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rhoto
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I'm inclined to agree.Obey Propaganda said:
I'm a dancer. I hang out with dancers, performers, strippers etc. all the time. I've talked to them when they're backstage half-naked or naked. This chick is nothing special. Attractive, yes, but a dime a dozen.young_gun said:
Riveting
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Okay, so most guys would give her an 8/10. A cute face and fake tits. But isn't that enough to tolerate her bull**** just to screw her? I think for most guys it is. You guys make 8/10 sound bad.
This is an example of the scarcity mentality vs abundance mentality.
Yeah she's attractive & I'd do her, but I wouldn't tolerate her BS just to get into her panties, when I can easily find one just as attractive or more, without the obnoxious BS. Besides, the guys who do tolerate her BS will not have a snowflake chance in hell to get into her panties anyway.
Yeah she's attractive & I'd do her, but I wouldn't tolerate her BS just to get into her panties, when I can easily find one just as attractive or more, without the obnoxious BS. Besides, the guys who do tolerate her BS will not have a snowflake chance in hell to get into her panties anyway.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
edger
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I agree. Definitely can be playboy material.young_gun said:
edger
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Yup, f*ck that.Jitterbug said:
cordoncordon
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I gotta agree lol. I find it amusing that so many find that girl a 7 or so, and call her just ok, when in real life she would be getting looks from every one of us and I can promise you that 96% of them would never approach her in a real life situation. I mean there is a reason why most here are on a dating web site lol.Obey Propaganda said:
As far as her looks, I dont know what some of you guys are smokin' but that girl is SMOKIN' hot.
And by the way I think she was being sarcastic in the video. As in sarcastically funny.
dude...check the page properly..its an ADVERTISMENT CAMPAIGN BY CONVERSE SHOES!...its so you'd buy their product//u kno?? appeal to single guys looking for hot chics!..like converse is gonna increase your confidence! HA!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I don't think she's that hot at all but everybody have their ideals.Obey Propaganda said:
Of course most guys here couldn't hold a conversation with her, she has the mentality of a spoiled brat who probably talks about celebraties all day. :crackup: Seriously though just treat her like she wants to be treated - like a little girl.
jafyk
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Ok, that girl is hot I'd give her an 8. To the person who said if she was hot why is she putting on make up. Personally, I don't think she needed that make up but I think she was just tryna show us how she transforms from bed to going out looking hot. Anyway, I think even if a girl is out of one's league given the right circumstances she can find herself playing in your league. I don't think any girl is out of my league I and some of us guys there need to winner the battle within us then we can figure in any league. Like that girl said it's all about confidence and presenting yourself well. I do think that girl though is conceited. Sometimes I like to tune into my conceited side and sarcastic side but I know it's not who I am but I get fun out of it.
Why are u guys arguing like a bunch of nerds about her rating on some HB scale. Her hotness is not even the main point. (good facial symmetry, high cheekbones, great skin she IS hot).
Shes basically saying guys should not be scared of hot girls and shes right.
Shes basically saying guys should not be scared of hot girls and shes right.
Dink
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Heh I never put myself in a category to get hot women, but low and behold boy did good things start to happen for me. I walk up to girls randomly all the time and talk to them. most the time they will talk back. I asked a friend(whom is a girl) one time why most girls will continue to talk to a guy that does that even if there is no interest in looks. She told me usually it's because guys don't approach them in public places and they're most interested about what the guy is about. I can vouch for this and say that even a girl you think yeah right wont happen. tell you what. I've never been turned down on a situation after approaching a girl i placed "out of my league".edger said:
The Sperminator
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I've had better and I'm hedious lol. Shes like a 8 max and thats with makeup.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.