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same thinking here broItsOnNow said:I think thats fake. Just an attention thing. Like lonelygirl on youtube. Saying shes hotter than other girls. Granted, this is a gorgeous girl, there are hotter chicks out there.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
same thinking here broItsOnNow said:I think thats fake. Just an attention thing. Like lonelygirl on youtube. Saying shes hotter than other girls. Granted, this is a gorgeous girl, there are hotter chicks out there.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Same here. And she isn't even that hot. Chicks like her are a dime a dozen (some guys gotta get out more). She might have a chance of being special if she has a pleasant personality. Obviously not.Warrior74 said:she seemed so obnoxious I didn't finish watching it.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm inclined to agree.Obey Propaganda said:Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
I'm a dancer. I hang out with dancers, performers, strippers etc. all the time. I've talked to them when they're backstage half-naked or naked. This chick is nothing special. Attractive, yes, but a dime a dozen.young_gun said:Damn, you guys are little harsh on this girl's looks! She's fvckin hot!!
Definitely an AW though. Buuuut, I wouldn't mind taking a huge p1ss in her @ss.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I agree. Definitely can be playboy material.young_gun said:Damn, you guys are little harsh on this girl's looks! She's fvckin hot!!
Yup, f*ck that.Jitterbug said:Yeah she's attractive & I'd do her, but I wouldn't tolerate her BS just to get into her panties
I gotta agree lol. I find it amusing that so many find that girl a 7 or so, and call her just ok, when in real life she would be getting looks from every one of us and I can promise you that 96% of them would never approach her in a real life situation. I mean there is a reason why most here are on a dating web site lol.Obey Propaganda said:"She's average, she's not that hot, etc."
Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
The fact you guys are so offended is an indication you couldn't pull a girl like that.
So quit lying to yourselves and face reality.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't think she's that hot at all but everybody have their ideals.Obey Propaganda said:"She's average, she's not that hot, etc."
Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
The fact you guys are so offended is an indication you couldn't pull a girl like that.
So quit lying to yourselves and face reality.
Heh I never put myself in a category to get hot women, but low and behold boy did good things start to happen for me. I walk up to girls randomly all the time and talk to them. most the time they will talk back. I asked a friend(whom is a girl) one time why most girls will continue to talk to a guy that does that even if there is no interest in looks. She told me usually it's because guys don't approach them in public places and they're most interested about what the guy is about. I can vouch for this and say that even a girl you think yeah right wont happen. tell you what. I've never been turned down on a situation after approaching a girl i placed "out of my league".edger said:I believe you 100%. Tell that too a lot of these guys around here who don't believe that A LOT of avg./below avg. guys pull hot women.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.