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same thinking here broItsOnNow said:I think thats fake. Just an attention thing. Like lonelygirl on youtube. Saying shes hotter than other girls. Granted, this is a gorgeous girl, there are hotter chicks out there.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
same thinking here broItsOnNow said:I think thats fake. Just an attention thing. Like lonelygirl on youtube. Saying shes hotter than other girls. Granted, this is a gorgeous girl, there are hotter chicks out there.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Same here. And she isn't even that hot. Chicks like her are a dime a dozen (some guys gotta get out more). She might have a chance of being special if she has a pleasant personality. Obviously not.Warrior74 said:she seemed so obnoxious I didn't finish watching it.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm inclined to agree.Obey Propaganda said:Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
I'm a dancer. I hang out with dancers, performers, strippers etc. all the time. I've talked to them when they're backstage half-naked or naked. This chick is nothing special. Attractive, yes, but a dime a dozen.young_gun said:Damn, you guys are little harsh on this girl's looks! She's fvckin hot!!
Definitely an AW though. Buuuut, I wouldn't mind taking a huge p1ss in her @ss.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I agree. Definitely can be playboy material.young_gun said:Damn, you guys are little harsh on this girl's looks! She's fvckin hot!!
Yup, f*ck that.Jitterbug said:Yeah she's attractive & I'd do her, but I wouldn't tolerate her BS just to get into her panties
I gotta agree lol. I find it amusing that so many find that girl a 7 or so, and call her just ok, when in real life she would be getting looks from every one of us and I can promise you that 96% of them would never approach her in a real life situation. I mean there is a reason why most here are on a dating web site lol.Obey Propaganda said:"She's average, she's not that hot, etc."
Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
The fact you guys are so offended is an indication you couldn't pull a girl like that.
So quit lying to yourselves and face reality.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I don't think she's that hot at all but everybody have their ideals.Obey Propaganda said:"She's average, she's not that hot, etc."
Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
The fact you guys are so offended is an indication you couldn't pull a girl like that.
So quit lying to yourselves and face reality.
Heh I never put myself in a category to get hot women, but low and behold boy did good things start to happen for me. I walk up to girls randomly all the time and talk to them. most the time they will talk back. I asked a friend(whom is a girl) one time why most girls will continue to talk to a guy that does that even if there is no interest in looks. She told me usually it's because guys don't approach them in public places and they're most interested about what the guy is about. I can vouch for this and say that even a girl you think yeah right wont happen. tell you what. I've never been turned down on a situation after approaching a girl i placed "out of my league".edger said:I believe you 100%. Tell that too a lot of these guys around here who don't believe that A LOT of avg./below avg. guys pull hot women.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.