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same thinking here broItsOnNow said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Out Of Your League Girl
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Same here. And she isn't even that hot. Chicks like her are a dime a dozen (some guys gotta get out more). She might have a chance of being special if she has a pleasant personality. Obviously not.Warrior74 said:
A chick acting like she's out of your league is a perfect candidate for having her b!tchy frame reflected back on herself. Then you just sit back and enjoy her comical attempt of qualifying herself to you. You guys know how to tease a child when she thinks she has something really cool & special and wants you to know that, right? Adults never take kids seriously in those situations and just play along & tease them.
A couple of years ago I was running some clumsy game on this chick who I thought was out of my league, and of course failed miserably. I met her a few months ago and slapped myself on the forehead: "THIS is the one I thought was out of my league? WTF was I thinking?" Funnily enough she is busy trying to get my attention now.
Obey Propaganda
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"She's average, she's not that hot, etc."
Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
The fact you guys are so offended is an indication you couldn't pull a girl like that.
So quit lying to yourselves and face reality.
Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
The fact you guys are so offended is an indication you couldn't pull a girl like that.
So quit lying to yourselves and face reality.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Rhoto
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I'm inclined to agree.Obey Propaganda said:
I'm a dancer. I hang out with dancers, performers, strippers etc. all the time. I've talked to them when they're backstage half-naked or naked. This chick is nothing special. Attractive, yes, but a dime a dozen.young_gun said:
Riveting
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Okay, so most guys would give her an 8/10. A cute face and fake tits. But isn't that enough to tolerate her bull**** just to screw her? I think for most guys it is. You guys make 8/10 sound bad.
This is an example of the scarcity mentality vs abundance mentality.
Yeah she's attractive & I'd do her, but I wouldn't tolerate her BS just to get into her panties, when I can easily find one just as attractive or more, without the obnoxious BS. Besides, the guys who do tolerate her BS will not have a snowflake chance in hell to get into her panties anyway.
Yeah she's attractive & I'd do her, but I wouldn't tolerate her BS just to get into her panties, when I can easily find one just as attractive or more, without the obnoxious BS. Besides, the guys who do tolerate her BS will not have a snowflake chance in hell to get into her panties anyway.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I agree. Definitely can be playboy material.young_gun said:
edger
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Yup, f*ck that.Jitterbug said:
cordoncordon
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I gotta agree lol. I find it amusing that so many find that girl a 7 or so, and call her just ok, when in real life she would be getting looks from every one of us and I can promise you that 96% of them would never approach her in a real life situation. I mean there is a reason why most here are on a dating web site lol.Obey Propaganda said:
As far as her looks, I dont know what some of you guys are smokin' but that girl is SMOKIN' hot.
And by the way I think she was being sarcastic in the video. As in sarcastically funny.
dude...check the page properly..its an ADVERTISMENT CAMPAIGN BY CONVERSE SHOES!...its so you'd buy their product//u kno?? appeal to single guys looking for hot chics!..like converse is gonna increase your confidence! HA!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I don't think she's that hot at all but everybody have their ideals.Obey Propaganda said:
Of course most guys here couldn't hold a conversation with her, she has the mentality of a spoiled brat who probably talks about celebraties all day. :crackup: Seriously though just treat her like she wants to be treated - like a little girl.
jafyk
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Ok, that girl is hot I'd give her an 8. To the person who said if she was hot why is she putting on make up. Personally, I don't think she needed that make up but I think she was just tryna show us how she transforms from bed to going out looking hot. Anyway, I think even if a girl is out of one's league given the right circumstances she can find herself playing in your league. I don't think any girl is out of my league I and some of us guys there need to winner the battle within us then we can figure in any league. Like that girl said it's all about confidence and presenting yourself well. I do think that girl though is conceited. Sometimes I like to tune into my conceited side and sarcastic side but I know it's not who I am but I get fun out of it.
Why are u guys arguing like a bunch of nerds about her rating on some HB scale. Her hotness is not even the main point. (good facial symmetry, high cheekbones, great skin she IS hot).
Shes basically saying guys should not be scared of hot girls and shes right.
Shes basically saying guys should not be scared of hot girls and shes right.
Dink
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Heh I never put myself in a category to get hot women, but low and behold boy did good things start to happen for me. I walk up to girls randomly all the time and talk to them. most the time they will talk back. I asked a friend(whom is a girl) one time why most girls will continue to talk to a guy that does that even if there is no interest in looks. She told me usually it's because guys don't approach them in public places and they're most interested about what the guy is about. I can vouch for this and say that even a girl you think yeah right wont happen. tell you what. I've never been turned down on a situation after approaching a girl i placed "out of my league".edger said:
The Sperminator
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I've had better and I'm hedious lol. Shes like a 8 max and thats with makeup.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.