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same thinking here broItsOnNow said:I think thats fake. Just an attention thing. Like lonelygirl on youtube. Saying shes hotter than other girls. Granted, this is a gorgeous girl, there are hotter chicks out there.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
same thinking here broItsOnNow said:I think thats fake. Just an attention thing. Like lonelygirl on youtube. Saying shes hotter than other girls. Granted, this is a gorgeous girl, there are hotter chicks out there.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Same here. And she isn't even that hot. Chicks like her are a dime a dozen (some guys gotta get out more). She might have a chance of being special if she has a pleasant personality. Obviously not.Warrior74 said:she seemed so obnoxious I didn't finish watching it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm inclined to agree.Obey Propaganda said:Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
I'm a dancer. I hang out with dancers, performers, strippers etc. all the time. I've talked to them when they're backstage half-naked or naked. This chick is nothing special. Attractive, yes, but a dime a dozen.young_gun said:Damn, you guys are little harsh on this girl's looks! She's fvckin hot!!
Definitely an AW though. Buuuut, I wouldn't mind taking a huge p1ss in her @ss.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I agree. Definitely can be playboy material.young_gun said:Damn, you guys are little harsh on this girl's looks! She's fvckin hot!!
Yup, f*ck that.Jitterbug said:Yeah she's attractive & I'd do her, but I wouldn't tolerate her BS just to get into her panties
I gotta agree lol. I find it amusing that so many find that girl a 7 or so, and call her just ok, when in real life she would be getting looks from every one of us and I can promise you that 96% of them would never approach her in a real life situation. I mean there is a reason why most here are on a dating web site lol.Obey Propaganda said:"She's average, she's not that hot, etc."
Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
The fact you guys are so offended is an indication you couldn't pull a girl like that.
So quit lying to yourselves and face reality.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I don't think she's that hot at all but everybody have their ideals.Obey Propaganda said:"She's average, she's not that hot, etc."
Please. Most of the guys here couldn't hold (much less start) a conversation with a girl that good-looking.
The fact you guys are so offended is an indication you couldn't pull a girl like that.
So quit lying to yourselves and face reality.
Heh I never put myself in a category to get hot women, but low and behold boy did good things start to happen for me. I walk up to girls randomly all the time and talk to them. most the time they will talk back. I asked a friend(whom is a girl) one time why most girls will continue to talk to a guy that does that even if there is no interest in looks. She told me usually it's because guys don't approach them in public places and they're most interested about what the guy is about. I can vouch for this and say that even a girl you think yeah right wont happen. tell you what. I've never been turned down on a situation after approaching a girl i placed "out of my league".edger said:I believe you 100%. Tell that too a lot of these guys around here who don't believe that A LOT of avg./below avg. guys pull hot women.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.