ianlove
Don Juan
Anyone here have a particular preference for ladies of the oriental persuasion?
Me and three of my friends do.
Me and three of my friends do.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
oriental ladies
- Thread starter ianlove
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
who said this forum is getting better
Asian. Oriental refers to objects. Asian refers to people. If you have a thing for Asian girls, don't refer to them as "Oriental."
Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."
Now, what the h3ll was the point of your post?
Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."
Now, what the h3ll was the point of your post?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DinoCassanova
Senior Don Juan
I'm not into them at all. Never have been. Asian women that is. In fact I can honestly say that's the one type of women that I've really never for some reason had any type of attraction to. My personal taste runs towards Hispanic women, usually, I mean if I had to choose just one type. I know there's a big fetish market in Asian material in the porn world however, so alot of guys must love them. To each his own. How many Asian women have you dated? (To the original poster)
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
:crackup: Nice :crackup:
darth yoda
Don Juan
wtf?
Is there a point to this seemingly random post?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
catch
Senior Don Juan
ive got a goat!
darth yoda
Don Juan
Please close this thread, for the love of all that is holy!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
I have an idea but what do those 3 words translate into?
LongDrinkofWater
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 20, 2005
- Messages
- 231
- Reaction score
- 0
I've got an Oriental friend who wants this Asian thread closed.
suikeisuru
Don Juan
I'm pretty much only into Japanese girls. I live in Hawai'i however so I have more than a fair share to chose from!