"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ianlove

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Anyone here have a particular preference for ladies of the oriental persuasion?

Me and three of my friends do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The answer could be yes or no, there is nothing wrong with liking a different flavor. My question is, where is this going? Whats the point of your post?
 

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Asian. Oriental refers to objects. Asian refers to people. If you have a thing for Asian girls, don't refer to them as "Oriental."

Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."

Now, what the h3ll was the point of your post?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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italostud

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Originally posted by bullmoose
Asian. Oriental refers to objects. Asian refers to people. If you have a thing for Asian girls, don't refer to them as "Oriental."

Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."

Now, what the h3ll was the point of your post?
Hmm. I never knew this. Are Asian people sensitive about their taxonomy? I wonder if I've been offending Asian chicks all along...:confused:
 

DinoCassanova

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I'm not into them at all. Never have been. Asian women that is. In fact I can honestly say that's the one type of women that I've really never for some reason had any type of attraction to. My personal taste runs towards Hispanic women, usually, I mean if I had to choose just one type. I know there's a big fetish market in Asian material in the porn world however, so alot of guys must love them. To each his own. How many Asian women have you dated? (To the original poster)
 

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Originally posted by bullmoose
Asian. Oriental refers to objects. Asian refers to people. If you have a thing for Asian girls, don't refer to them as "Oriental."

Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."
:crackup: Nice :crackup:
 

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Anyone here have a particular preference for ladies of the oriental persuasion?

Me and three of my friends do.
wtf? :confused:

Is there a point to this seemingly random post?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've got the yellow fever for sure. I got me a Japanese honey now and it sure is fantastic. Can't recommend it enough...-dirtycm
 

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Please close this thread, for the love of all that is holy!
 

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Okay, maybe this post isn't the best I've ever seen, but really, is the constant crying to the mods for it to be closed, necessary? Maybe some guys just want to talk about their fetish. Wtf is wrong with that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gonzalo

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Maybe they should merge this thread with the "favourite lady part" thread...

hell, you'd have some guys posting on their "favorite part on an 'oriental' lady".
 

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I've got an Oriental friend who wants this Asian thread closed.
 

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I'm pretty much only into Japanese girls. I live in Hawai'i however so I have more than a fair share to chose from! :)
 
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