ianlove
Don Juan
Anyone here have a particular preference for ladies of the oriental persuasion?
Me and three of my friends do.
Me and three of my friends do.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
oriental ladies
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
who said this forum is getting better
Asian. Oriental refers to objects. Asian refers to people. If you have a thing for Asian girls, don't refer to them as "Oriental."
Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."
Now, what the h3ll was the point of your post?
Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."
Now, what the h3ll was the point of your post?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DinoCassanova
Senior Don Juan
I'm not into them at all. Never have been. Asian women that is. In fact I can honestly say that's the one type of women that I've really never for some reason had any type of attraction to. My personal taste runs towards Hispanic women, usually, I mean if I had to choose just one type. I know there's a big fetish market in Asian material in the porn world however, so alot of guys must love them. To each his own. How many Asian women have you dated? (To the original poster)
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
:crackup: Nice :crackup:
darth yoda
Don Juan
wtf?
Is there a point to this seemingly random post?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
catch
Senior Don Juan
ive got a goat!
darth yoda
Don Juan
Please close this thread, for the love of all that is holy!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
I have an idea but what do those 3 words translate into?
LongDrinkofWater
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I've got an Oriental friend who wants this Asian thread closed.
suikeisuru
Don Juan
I'm pretty much only into Japanese girls. I live in Hawai'i however so I have more than a fair share to chose from!