"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone here have a particular preference for ladies of the oriental persuasion?

Me and three of my friends do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The answer could be yes or no, there is nothing wrong with liking a different flavor. My question is, where is this going? Whats the point of your post?
 
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Asian. Oriental refers to objects. Asian refers to people. If you have a thing for Asian girls, don't refer to them as "Oriental."

Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."

Now, what the h3ll was the point of your post?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by bullmoose
Asian. Oriental refers to objects. Asian refers to people. If you have a thing for Asian girls, don't refer to them as "Oriental."

Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."

Now, what the h3ll was the point of your post?
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Hmm. I never knew this. Are Asian people sensitive about their taxonomy? I wonder if I've been offending Asian chicks all along...:confused:
 
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I'm not into them at all. Never have been. Asian women that is. In fact I can honestly say that's the one type of women that I've really never for some reason had any type of attraction to. My personal taste runs towards Hispanic women, usually, I mean if I had to choose just one type. I know there's a big fetish market in Asian material in the porn world however, so alot of guys must love them. To each his own. How many Asian women have you dated? (To the original poster)
 
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Originally posted by bullmoose
Asian. Oriental refers to objects. Asian refers to people. If you have a thing for Asian girls, don't refer to them as "Oriental."

Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."
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:crackup: Nice :crackup:
 
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Anyone here have a particular preference for ladies of the oriental persuasion?

Me and three of my friends do.
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wtf? :confused:

Is there a point to this seemingly random post?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've got the yellow fever for sure. I got me a Japanese honey now and it sure is fantastic. Can't recommend it enough...-dirtycm
 
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Please close this thread, for the love of all that is holy!
 
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Okay, maybe this post isn't the best I've ever seen, but really, is the constant crying to the mods for it to be closed, necessary? Maybe some guys just want to talk about their fetish. Wtf is wrong with that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe they should merge this thread with the "favourite lady part" thread...

hell, you'd have some guys posting on their "favorite part on an 'oriental' lady".
 
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I've got an Oriental friend who wants this Asian thread closed.
 
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I'm pretty much only into Japanese girls. I live in Hawai'i however so I have more than a fair share to chose from! :)
 
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