ianlove
Don Juan
Anyone here have a particular preference for ladies of the oriental persuasion?
Me and three of my friends do.
Me and three of my friends do.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
oriental ladies
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
who said this forum is getting better
Asian. Oriental refers to objects. Asian refers to people. If you have a thing for Asian girls, don't refer to them as "Oriental."
Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."
Now, what the h3ll was the point of your post?
Say it with me: "That Asian girl sure has a nice Oriental rug."
Now, what the h3ll was the point of your post?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DinoCassanova
Senior Don Juan
I'm not into them at all. Never have been. Asian women that is. In fact I can honestly say that's the one type of women that I've really never for some reason had any type of attraction to. My personal taste runs towards Hispanic women, usually, I mean if I had to choose just one type. I know there's a big fetish market in Asian material in the porn world however, so alot of guys must love them. To each his own. How many Asian women have you dated? (To the original poster)
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
:crackup: Nice :crackup:
darth yoda
Don Juan
wtf?
Is there a point to this seemingly random post?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
catch
Senior Don Juan
ive got a goat!
darth yoda
Don Juan
Please close this thread, for the love of all that is holy!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
I have an idea but what do those 3 words translate into?
LongDrinkofWater
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I've got an Oriental friend who wants this Asian thread closed.
suikeisuru
Don Juan
I'm pretty much only into Japanese girls. I live in Hawai'i however so I have more than a fair share to chose from!