Aiken_Drum
Master Don Juan
So... can you get AIDS by going down on a girl? If so, you need to have abrasions inside your mouth or what? How does it work?
Thanks.
Thanks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Oral sex & STDs.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There's gonna be a bunch of ignorant idiots telling you that she has to be "gargling with blood" in order for you to get HIV. So don't listen to them.
The truth is that if you have cavities, have eaten food in the last 2 hours, have micro traumas on your lips, a scratch in your throat, stomach you have about the same chances of getting HIV as by ramming her with your d1ck.
What they don't understand is that one blood cell is enough for you to get the infection. Mouth gets damaged quite often and even the slightest cuts give enough blood to be infected.
And there's about a 100 more infections that you have huge chances of getting through oral sex.
So use condoms and discover such thing called dental dam.
The truth is that if you have cavities, have eaten food in the last 2 hours, have micro traumas on your lips, a scratch in your throat, stomach you have about the same chances of getting HIV as by ramming her with your d1ck.
What they don't understand is that one blood cell is enough for you to get the infection. Mouth gets damaged quite often and even the slightest cuts give enough blood to be infected.
And there's about a 100 more infections that you have huge chances of getting through oral sex.
So use condoms and discover such thing called dental dam.
Aiken_Drum
Master Don Juan
WHY GOD WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY????????????
Stupid aids, it's really starting to piss me off !!!!
Stupid aids, it's really starting to piss me off
!!!!Soshyopathe
Master Don Juan
What kind of dork uses a dental dam on his girl?
VoodooChild
Senior Don Juan
The kind who doesn't want AIDS, apparently.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jmm854
Master Don Juan
The bottom line is if it's your girlfriend you're eating out, assuming you know she doesn't have AIDS, it's a non-issue. However, it's a bad idea to go down on some random slut you pick up at the mall.
VoodooChild
Senior Don Juan
What if she gives you a blow job? What's the STD risk from that? I'd think it'd be greater to her than you... anyone know?
2N Turbo
Senior Don Juan
Its consider low low risk.
And for the chances of getting it if having sex(vaginal) without protection with a person who is known to be hiv postive is 0.1-0.3% (1-3 out of 1000 sexual episodes) on the receptive(female) end and lower on the insertive(male) end. According to these experts.
http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/
However, don't let the statistics fool you. One bad experience, one wrong move, and you are stuck with a disease and potentially fatal immune deficiency syndrome for the remainder of your short-lived life.
You can read a thousand testimonials of people who 'never would have thought so and so had it...' etc.
You can read a thousand testimonials of people who 'never would have thought so and so had it...' etc.
This thread deserves to be bumped.
Remember that many ppl who have a STD don't even have visible effects of disease. So if it looks clean it's maybe not what it seems...
So let's talk not just about HIV here.
Remember that many ppl who have a STD don't even have visible effects of disease. So if it looks clean it's maybe not what it seems...
So let's talk not just about HIV here.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Helter Skelter
Master Don Juan
What the fucck is Dental Dam, doesn't sound like much fun?
Soshyopathe
Master Don Juan
Only dorks worry about AIDS.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Soshyopathe
Master Don Juan
Oh come now!
A guy spends his time worrying about aids instead of going down on his woman, or probably doesn't even have a woman, he's just sitting infront of his monitor worrying; and you don't think that falls within dorkdome?
Well, I hope you all die worried virgins.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Same way we all hope you die from AIDS