"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Oral sex & STDs.

Aiken_Drum

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So... can you get AIDS by going down on a girl? If so, you need to have abrasions inside your mouth or what? How does it work?
Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There's gonna be a bunch of ignorant idiots telling you that she has to be "gargling with blood" in order for you to get HIV. So don't listen to them.

The truth is that if you have cavities, have eaten food in the last 2 hours, have micro traumas on your lips, a scratch in your throat, stomach you have about the same chances of getting HIV as by ramming her with your d1ck.

What they don't understand is that one blood cell is enough for you to get the infection. Mouth gets damaged quite often and even the slightest cuts give enough blood to be infected.

And there's about a 100 more infections that you have huge chances of getting through oral sex.

So use condoms and discover such thing called dental dam. :)
 

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WHY GOD WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY????????????
Stupid aids, it's really starting to piss me off :mad: !!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The bottom line is if it's your girlfriend you're eating out, assuming you know she doesn't have AIDS, it's a non-issue. However, it's a bad idea to go down on some random slut you pick up at the mall.
 

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What if she gives you a blow job? What's the STD risk from that? I'd think it'd be greater to her than you... anyone know?
 

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Originally posted by Aiken_Drum
So... can you get AIDS by going down on a girl? If so, you need to have abrasions inside your mouth or what? How does it work?
Thanks.
Its consider low low risk.

And for the chances of getting it if having sex(vaginal) without protection with a person who is known to be hiv postive is 0.1-0.3% (1-3 out of 1000 sexual episodes) on the receptive(female) end and lower on the insertive(male) end. According to these experts.

http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/
 

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However, don't let the statistics fool you. One bad experience, one wrong move, and you are stuck with a disease and potentially fatal immune deficiency syndrome for the remainder of your short-lived life.

You can read a thousand testimonials of people who 'never would have thought so and so had it...' etc.
 

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This thread deserves to be bumped.

Remember that many ppl who have a STD don't even have visible effects of disease. So if it looks clean it's maybe not what it seems...

So let's talk not just about HIV here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Soshyopathe
Only dorks worry about AIDS.
Respect level...dropping...quickly......


<poof>
 

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Originally posted by Soshyopathe
Only dorks worry about AIDS.
What do you expect? He's from f'g Kentucky...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Reto
What do you expect? He's from f'g Kentucky...
Oh come now!

A guy spends his time worrying about aids instead of going down on his woman, or probably doesn't even have a woman, he's just sitting infront of his monitor worrying; and you don't think that falls within dorkdome?

Well, I hope you all die worried virgins.
 

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My brother died of aids... Actually Non-Hotchkins Lymphoma...

It's a pretty horrid death...
 
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