"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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open a car wash or finish my computer degree?

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Hi guys,

Im 40 years old and im about 6 months away from finishing an associates degree in computer science degree. Even though I am getting good grades, I went into the computer field just for the money and I dont have a passion for computers. I went back to college because I was fed up with my current career which is working for a water department. Im too old to be digging ditches now. Now im debating on whether to quit the college and just to buy a car wash. Any suggestions on what I should do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BackInTheGame78

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Hi guys,

Im 40 years old and im about 6 months away from finishing an associates degree in computer science degree. Even though I am getting good grades, I went into the computer field just for the money and I dont have a passion for computers. I went back to college because I was fed up with my current career which is working for a water department. Im too old to be digging ditches now. Now im debating on whether to quit the college and just to buy a car wash. Any suggestions on what I should do?
You will get crushed by people like me who are obsessed with programming so the car wash would probably be a better idea.
 

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If you don‘t have drive in IT you will have a hard time staying up to date. If you‘re ok with stagnation an inhouse admin job i.e. would be ok, but not consulting and services.

There are interesting fields like forensics, but ask yourself if you could be happy longterm, when you only stay for some cash.

But you‘re done in half a year. I don‘t know what an associates degree is but I imagine you were working on it some time. Why not finishing it and think about your option with the car wash? Can you start your car wash besides working on finishing your degree?
 

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I would say that computer science, wanting or not, has way more demand that car washing. Even if it's not really what you want, it may be the safest choice that will guarantee a good income. Maybe in the future, when you saved a good money, you can open your own Car Wash and leave the computer science jobs?
 

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You will get crushed by people like me who are obsessed with programming so the car wash would probably be a better idea.
OP, it is a world stage now and competition is fierce. at the same time demand is high. if you don't like doing it, not a nice way to spend so much of your time. As Game78 tells, there are a lot of rock stars already. It can still be done, but need to have interest and motivation.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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metalwater

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a car wash business can make money. lots of ways to sell extra products and services around that and even add more locations to the business. with motivation can get wealthy from doing that. more money than writing code for someone else.
 

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What would you do if money was not an issue?
 
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