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If you're good looking enough to succeed in online dating, you should stick to your strengths 
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Online Forum? This forum is drowning in online posts..
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Naughty Ninja
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BeginningDJ said:If you're good looking enough to succeed in online dating, you should stick to your strengths
Better yet. If you can succeed in online "dating" you'll have less issues with real life approaches and more azz than you know what to do with. So long as you keep online "dating" in perspective and don't go in with the attitude of looking for a wifey online. Then you're asking for trouble with those types of chicks.
I'm sure most who dismiss online dating have either already gotten too emotionally involved and burned by it, or have failed and are doing a lot of talking out of the azz online as if they were getting so much "quality" in real life they wouldn't be on here complaining about chicks who don't use online dating while throwing out BPD every third sentence in the first place.
alphamailman
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Yep I avoid online dating like the plague. No interest in that crap. A separate forum would be good I suppose.
Daily Insanity
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This is absolutely correct, girls who go online dont go there expecting anything realistic nor should you. In fact I've told a lot of girls off because their profile sounds like a monkey wrote it. I don't care either, why should you?Naughty Ninja said:
After I have a stressful day at work I take it out on online horz.
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Bump.Atom Smasher said:
Any news there Atom? This amount of online dating sh!ts beyond a joke here now.
Even if it was just a sticky post at the top of this page "ALL ONLINE CRAP IN HERE", would be enough.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Count me as someone who fully supports a separate forum for online dating.
Can you tell me, in the past year how many of those numbers have you turned into lays and how hot have the ladies been? I assume you're not getting numbers from average-looking or below-average women. So as not to hijack this thread I'll post a link:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202223
Thank you.
You're just the man I'm looking for. I have another thread where I'm trying to get guys who do in-person PU tell about their successes.Plutoman said:
Can you tell me, in the past year how many of those numbers have you turned into lays and how hot have the ladies been? I assume you're not getting numbers from average-looking or below-average women. So as not to hijack this thread I'll post a link:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202223
Thank you.
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