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If you're good looking enough to succeed in online dating, you should stick to your strengths 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Online Forum? This forum is drowning in online posts..
- Thread starter \O/
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Naughty Ninja
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BeginningDJ said:If you're good looking enough to succeed in online dating, you should stick to your strengths
Better yet. If you can succeed in online "dating" you'll have less issues with real life approaches and more azz than you know what to do with. So long as you keep online "dating" in perspective and don't go in with the attitude of looking for a wifey online. Then you're asking for trouble with those types of chicks.
I'm sure most who dismiss online dating have either already gotten too emotionally involved and burned by it, or have failed and are doing a lot of talking out of the azz online as if they were getting so much "quality" in real life they wouldn't be on here complaining about chicks who don't use online dating while throwing out BPD every third sentence in the first place.
alphamailman
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Yep I avoid online dating like the plague. No interest in that crap. A separate forum would be good I suppose.
Daily Insanity
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This is absolutely correct, girls who go online dont go there expecting anything realistic nor should you. In fact I've told a lot of girls off because their profile sounds like a monkey wrote it. I don't care either, why should you?Naughty Ninja said:
After I have a stressful day at work I take it out on online horz.
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Bump.Atom Smasher said:
Any news there Atom? This amount of online dating sh!ts beyond a joke here now.
Even if it was just a sticky post at the top of this page "ALL ONLINE CRAP IN HERE", would be enough.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Count me as someone who fully supports a separate forum for online dating.
Can you tell me, in the past year how many of those numbers have you turned into lays and how hot have the ladies been? I assume you're not getting numbers from average-looking or below-average women. So as not to hijack this thread I'll post a link:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202223
Thank you.
You're just the man I'm looking for. I have another thread where I'm trying to get guys who do in-person PU tell about their successes.Plutoman said:
Can you tell me, in the past year how many of those numbers have you turned into lays and how hot have the ladies been? I assume you're not getting numbers from average-looking or below-average women. So as not to hijack this thread I'll post a link:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202223
Thank you.
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