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If you're good looking enough to succeed in online dating, you should stick to your strengths 
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Online Forum? This forum is drowning in online posts..
- Thread starter \O/
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Naughty Ninja
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BeginningDJ said:If you're good looking enough to succeed in online dating, you should stick to your strengths
Better yet. If you can succeed in online "dating" you'll have less issues with real life approaches and more azz than you know what to do with. So long as you keep online "dating" in perspective and don't go in with the attitude of looking for a wifey online. Then you're asking for trouble with those types of chicks.
I'm sure most who dismiss online dating have either already gotten too emotionally involved and burned by it, or have failed and are doing a lot of talking out of the azz online as if they were getting so much "quality" in real life they wouldn't be on here complaining about chicks who don't use online dating while throwing out BPD every third sentence in the first place.
alphamailman
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Yep I avoid online dating like the plague. No interest in that crap. A separate forum would be good I suppose.
Daily Insanity
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This is absolutely correct, girls who go online dont go there expecting anything realistic nor should you. In fact I've told a lot of girls off because their profile sounds like a monkey wrote it. I don't care either, why should you?Naughty Ninja said:
After I have a stressful day at work I take it out on online horz.
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Bump.Atom Smasher said:
Any news there Atom? This amount of online dating sh!ts beyond a joke here now.
Even if it was just a sticky post at the top of this page "ALL ONLINE CRAP IN HERE", would be enough.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Count me as someone who fully supports a separate forum for online dating.
Can you tell me, in the past year how many of those numbers have you turned into lays and how hot have the ladies been? I assume you're not getting numbers from average-looking or below-average women. So as not to hijack this thread I'll post a link:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202223
Thank you.
You're just the man I'm looking for. I have another thread where I'm trying to get guys who do in-person PU tell about their successes.Plutoman said:
Can you tell me, in the past year how many of those numbers have you turned into lays and how hot have the ladies been? I assume you're not getting numbers from average-looking or below-average women. So as not to hijack this thread I'll post a link:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202223
Thank you.
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