"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
One on One Training
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
crossboss said:I'd like to get better at my game, I was wondering if anybody wanted to work one on one with me. I'd be willing to help anybody with their game as well.
Experienced people only.
U GOT THAT MANY POSTS ON HERE AND U WANT TRAINING...........thats reassuring (your prior posts validity)
anyways.........the training goes like this.
1) INNER GAME :research, know the terms, practice, make attempts, etc.
2) INTERNET GAMING:IM'S, CHATS, EMAILS, DATING SITES, ACCUMULATE #'S
3) DIGITS TO DATES: making the #;s u got into actual dates by your flirtation tactic on the phone.
4) SPEED DATING: face 2 face mini dates with 12-15 women in a few hours, work on small talk skills, then guage your success matches.
5) BAR/CLUBS: warm appraoches, mystery method, negs,dhv,wingman etc.
6) DAY GAME: moving targets, non-date atmosphere pick ups, etc.
7) SEX:the ultimate close, gotta have a few under your belt before you can WRITE ANY MORE ARTICLES.
8) DATING: some sort of relationship with same chic.
9) TWO OR MORE: bedding a stripper, 3some,etc.
10) TEACH:instruct, write a book, get your own vh1 show, develop a system.
U are going to have to do # 1 by yourself, then u can proceed to #2. # close, kiss close, F--k close in each level.
Internet is outsourcing but truly requires a skill set to master (20-100 women in 30 days or less). Real skills come with cold approaching THE RIGHT WAY........any moron can get rejected 20 times a day.
It easy to just steal tips from here but you are missing the rest of the puzzle to complete the whole picture. IT begins with research though, actual testing in the field and then re-evaluation to fine tune. TEST yourself when u get the desired results.
But coaching 1 on 1 can come in numerous forms............virtual (online) semi-virtual- phone consultation, live in the field from your wingman, Live from an instructor (costly), boot camps, books/guides/programs/dvd's/pod casts.
how serious are you and how much money are you willing to spend and lastly what do you wish to gain in the end.
I would start with research, reading, then buy a book, then a program, then sign up to which ever no cold approach enviroment you desire.
U need to write stuff down (journal, blogg) and measure your success.
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Master Don Juan
IceBreaker
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Any kind, of self-improvement is necessary.COD said:U GOT THAT MANY POSTS ON HERE AND U WANT TRAINING...........thats reassuring (your prior posts validity)
anyways.........the training goes like this.
1) INNER GAME :research, know the terms, practice, make attempts, etc.
2) INTERNET GAMING:IM'S, CHATS, EMAILS, DATING SITES, ACCUMULATE #'S
3) DIGITS TO DATES: making the #;s u got into actual dates by your flirtation tactic on the phone.
4) SPEED DATING: face 2 face mini dates with 12-15 women in a few hours, work on small talk skills, then guage your success matches.
5) BAR/CLUBS: warm appraoches, mystery method, negs,dhv,wingman etc.
6) DAY GAME: moving targets, non-date atmosphere pick ups, etc.
7) SEX:the ultimate close, gotta have a few under your belt before you can WRITE ANY MORE ARTICLES.
8) DATING: some sort of relationship with same chic.
9) TWO OR MORE: bedding a stripper, 3some,etc.
10) TEACH:instruct, write a book, get your own vh1 show, develop a system.
U are going to have to do # 1 by yourself, then u can proceed to #2. # close, kiss close, F--k close in each level.
Internet is outsourcing but truly requires a skill set to master (20-100 women in 30 days or less). Real skills come with cold approaching THE RIGHT WAY........any moron can get rejected 20 times a day.
It easy to just steal tips from here but you are missing the rest of the puzzle to complete the whole picture. IT begins with research though, actual testing in the field and then re-evaluation to fine tune. TEST yourself when u get the desired results.
But coaching 1 on 1 can come in numerous forms............virtual (online) semi-virtual- phone consultation, live in the field from your wingman, Live from an instructor (costly), boot camps, books/guides/programs/dvd's/pod casts.
how serious are you and how much money are you willing to spend and lastly what do you wish to gain in the end.
I would start with research, reading, then buy a book, then a program, then sign up to which ever no cold approach enviroment you desire.
U need to write stuff down (journal, blogg) and measure your success.