"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
One on One Training
- Thread starter crossboss
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
crossboss said:I'd like to get better at my game, I was wondering if anybody wanted to work one on one with me. I'd be willing to help anybody with their game as well.
Experienced people only.
U GOT THAT MANY POSTS ON HERE AND U WANT TRAINING...........thats reassuring (your prior posts validity)
anyways.........the training goes like this.
1) INNER GAME :research, know the terms, practice, make attempts, etc.
2) INTERNET GAMING:IM'S, CHATS, EMAILS, DATING SITES, ACCUMULATE #'S
3) DIGITS TO DATES: making the #;s u got into actual dates by your flirtation tactic on the phone.
4) SPEED DATING: face 2 face mini dates with 12-15 women in a few hours, work on small talk skills, then guage your success matches.
5) BAR/CLUBS: warm appraoches, mystery method, negs,dhv,wingman etc.
6) DAY GAME: moving targets, non-date atmosphere pick ups, etc.
7) SEX:the ultimate close, gotta have a few under your belt before you can WRITE ANY MORE ARTICLES.
8) DATING: some sort of relationship with same chic.
9) TWO OR MORE: bedding a stripper, 3some,etc.
10) TEACH:instruct, write a book, get your own vh1 show, develop a system.
U are going to have to do # 1 by yourself, then u can proceed to #2. # close, kiss close, F--k close in each level.
Internet is outsourcing but truly requires a skill set to master (20-100 women in 30 days or less). Real skills come with cold approaching THE RIGHT WAY........any moron can get rejected 20 times a day.
It easy to just steal tips from here but you are missing the rest of the puzzle to complete the whole picture. IT begins with research though, actual testing in the field and then re-evaluation to fine tune. TEST yourself when u get the desired results.
But coaching 1 on 1 can come in numerous forms............virtual (online) semi-virtual- phone consultation, live in the field from your wingman, Live from an instructor (costly), boot camps, books/guides/programs/dvd's/pod casts.
how serious are you and how much money are you willing to spend and lastly what do you wish to gain in the end.
I would start with research, reading, then buy a book, then a program, then sign up to which ever no cold approach enviroment you desire.
U need to write stuff down (journal, blogg) and measure your success.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
IceBreaker
Don Juan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Any kind, of self-improvement is necessary.COD said:U GOT THAT MANY POSTS ON HERE AND U WANT TRAINING...........thats reassuring (your prior posts validity)
anyways.........the training goes like this.
1) INNER GAME :research, know the terms, practice, make attempts, etc.
2) INTERNET GAMING:IM'S, CHATS, EMAILS, DATING SITES, ACCUMULATE #'S
3) DIGITS TO DATES: making the #;s u got into actual dates by your flirtation tactic on the phone.
4) SPEED DATING: face 2 face mini dates with 12-15 women in a few hours, work on small talk skills, then guage your success matches.
5) BAR/CLUBS: warm appraoches, mystery method, negs,dhv,wingman etc.
6) DAY GAME: moving targets, non-date atmosphere pick ups, etc.
7) SEX:the ultimate close, gotta have a few under your belt before you can WRITE ANY MORE ARTICLES.
8) DATING: some sort of relationship with same chic.
9) TWO OR MORE: bedding a stripper, 3some,etc.
10) TEACH:instruct, write a book, get your own vh1 show, develop a system.
U are going to have to do # 1 by yourself, then u can proceed to #2. # close, kiss close, F--k close in each level.
Internet is outsourcing but truly requires a skill set to master (20-100 women in 30 days or less). Real skills come with cold approaching THE RIGHT WAY........any moron can get rejected 20 times a day.
It easy to just steal tips from here but you are missing the rest of the puzzle to complete the whole picture. IT begins with research though, actual testing in the field and then re-evaluation to fine tune. TEST yourself when u get the desired results.
But coaching 1 on 1 can come in numerous forms............virtual (online) semi-virtual- phone consultation, live in the field from your wingman, Live from an instructor (costly), boot camps, books/guides/programs/dvd's/pod casts.
how serious are you and how much money are you willing to spend and lastly what do you wish to gain in the end.
I would start with research, reading, then buy a book, then a program, then sign up to which ever no cold approach enviroment you desire.
U need to write stuff down (journal, blogg) and measure your success.