"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
One on One Training
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
crossboss said:I'd like to get better at my game, I was wondering if anybody wanted to work one on one with me. I'd be willing to help anybody with their game as well.
Experienced people only.
U GOT THAT MANY POSTS ON HERE AND U WANT TRAINING...........thats reassuring (your prior posts validity)
anyways.........the training goes like this.
1) INNER GAME :research, know the terms, practice, make attempts, etc.
2) INTERNET GAMING:IM'S, CHATS, EMAILS, DATING SITES, ACCUMULATE #'S
3) DIGITS TO DATES: making the #;s u got into actual dates by your flirtation tactic on the phone.
4) SPEED DATING: face 2 face mini dates with 12-15 women in a few hours, work on small talk skills, then guage your success matches.
5) BAR/CLUBS: warm appraoches, mystery method, negs,dhv,wingman etc.
6) DAY GAME: moving targets, non-date atmosphere pick ups, etc.
7) SEX:the ultimate close, gotta have a few under your belt before you can WRITE ANY MORE ARTICLES.
8) DATING: some sort of relationship with same chic.
9) TWO OR MORE: bedding a stripper, 3some,etc.
10) TEACH:instruct, write a book, get your own vh1 show, develop a system.
U are going to have to do # 1 by yourself, then u can proceed to #2. # close, kiss close, F--k close in each level.
Internet is outsourcing but truly requires a skill set to master (20-100 women in 30 days or less). Real skills come with cold approaching THE RIGHT WAY........any moron can get rejected 20 times a day.
It easy to just steal tips from here but you are missing the rest of the puzzle to complete the whole picture. IT begins with research though, actual testing in the field and then re-evaluation to fine tune. TEST yourself when u get the desired results.
But coaching 1 on 1 can come in numerous forms............virtual (online) semi-virtual- phone consultation, live in the field from your wingman, Live from an instructor (costly), boot camps, books/guides/programs/dvd's/pod casts.
how serious are you and how much money are you willing to spend and lastly what do you wish to gain in the end.
I would start with research, reading, then buy a book, then a program, then sign up to which ever no cold approach enviroment you desire.
U need to write stuff down (journal, blogg) and measure your success.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Any kind, of self-improvement is necessary.COD said:U GOT THAT MANY POSTS ON HERE AND U WANT TRAINING...........thats reassuring (your prior posts validity)
anyways.........the training goes like this.
1) INNER GAME :research, know the terms, practice, make attempts, etc.
2) INTERNET GAMING:IM'S, CHATS, EMAILS, DATING SITES, ACCUMULATE #'S
3) DIGITS TO DATES: making the #;s u got into actual dates by your flirtation tactic on the phone.
4) SPEED DATING: face 2 face mini dates with 12-15 women in a few hours, work on small talk skills, then guage your success matches.
5) BAR/CLUBS: warm appraoches, mystery method, negs,dhv,wingman etc.
6) DAY GAME: moving targets, non-date atmosphere pick ups, etc.
7) SEX:the ultimate close, gotta have a few under your belt before you can WRITE ANY MORE ARTICLES.
8) DATING: some sort of relationship with same chic.
9) TWO OR MORE: bedding a stripper, 3some,etc.
10) TEACH:instruct, write a book, get your own vh1 show, develop a system.
U are going to have to do # 1 by yourself, then u can proceed to #2. # close, kiss close, F--k close in each level.
Internet is outsourcing but truly requires a skill set to master (20-100 women in 30 days or less). Real skills come with cold approaching THE RIGHT WAY........any moron can get rejected 20 times a day.
It easy to just steal tips from here but you are missing the rest of the puzzle to complete the whole picture. IT begins with research though, actual testing in the field and then re-evaluation to fine tune. TEST yourself when u get the desired results.
But coaching 1 on 1 can come in numerous forms............virtual (online) semi-virtual- phone consultation, live in the field from your wingman, Live from an instructor (costly), boot camps, books/guides/programs/dvd's/pod casts.
how serious are you and how much money are you willing to spend and lastly what do you wish to gain in the end.
I would start with research, reading, then buy a book, then a program, then sign up to which ever no cold approach enviroment you desire.
U need to write stuff down (journal, blogg) and measure your success.