"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
One on One Training
- Thread starter crossboss
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
crossboss said:I'd like to get better at my game, I was wondering if anybody wanted to work one on one with me. I'd be willing to help anybody with their game as well.
Experienced people only.
U GOT THAT MANY POSTS ON HERE AND U WANT TRAINING...........thats reassuring (your prior posts validity)
anyways.........the training goes like this.
1) INNER GAME :research, know the terms, practice, make attempts, etc.
2) INTERNET GAMING:IM'S, CHATS, EMAILS, DATING SITES, ACCUMULATE #'S
3) DIGITS TO DATES: making the #;s u got into actual dates by your flirtation tactic on the phone.
4) SPEED DATING: face 2 face mini dates with 12-15 women in a few hours, work on small talk skills, then guage your success matches.
5) BAR/CLUBS: warm appraoches, mystery method, negs,dhv,wingman etc.
6) DAY GAME: moving targets, non-date atmosphere pick ups, etc.
7) SEX:the ultimate close, gotta have a few under your belt before you can WRITE ANY MORE ARTICLES.
8) DATING: some sort of relationship with same chic.
9) TWO OR MORE: bedding a stripper, 3some,etc.
10) TEACH:instruct, write a book, get your own vh1 show, develop a system.
U are going to have to do # 1 by yourself, then u can proceed to #2. # close, kiss close, F--k close in each level.
Internet is outsourcing but truly requires a skill set to master (20-100 women in 30 days or less). Real skills come with cold approaching THE RIGHT WAY........any moron can get rejected 20 times a day.
It easy to just steal tips from here but you are missing the rest of the puzzle to complete the whole picture. IT begins with research though, actual testing in the field and then re-evaluation to fine tune. TEST yourself when u get the desired results.
But coaching 1 on 1 can come in numerous forms............virtual (online) semi-virtual- phone consultation, live in the field from your wingman, Live from an instructor (costly), boot camps, books/guides/programs/dvd's/pod casts.
how serious are you and how much money are you willing to spend and lastly what do you wish to gain in the end.
I would start with research, reading, then buy a book, then a program, then sign up to which ever no cold approach enviroment you desire.
U need to write stuff down (journal, blogg) and measure your success.
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Master Don Juan
IceBreaker
Don Juan
Do a search and type in your postal code...........BUT ALLOW ME TO DO U A FAVOR.........get this guide.......THE ONLY REAL SOLID ADVICE ON SPEED DATING.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Any kind, of self-improvement is necessary.COD said:U GOT THAT MANY POSTS ON HERE AND U WANT TRAINING...........thats reassuring (your prior posts validity)
anyways.........the training goes like this.
1) INNER GAME :research, know the terms, practice, make attempts, etc.
2) INTERNET GAMING:IM'S, CHATS, EMAILS, DATING SITES, ACCUMULATE #'S
3) DIGITS TO DATES: making the #;s u got into actual dates by your flirtation tactic on the phone.
4) SPEED DATING: face 2 face mini dates with 12-15 women in a few hours, work on small talk skills, then guage your success matches.
5) BAR/CLUBS: warm appraoches, mystery method, negs,dhv,wingman etc.
6) DAY GAME: moving targets, non-date atmosphere pick ups, etc.
7) SEX:the ultimate close, gotta have a few under your belt before you can WRITE ANY MORE ARTICLES.
8) DATING: some sort of relationship with same chic.
9) TWO OR MORE: bedding a stripper, 3some,etc.
10) TEACH:instruct, write a book, get your own vh1 show, develop a system.
U are going to have to do # 1 by yourself, then u can proceed to #2. # close, kiss close, F--k close in each level.
Internet is outsourcing but truly requires a skill set to master (20-100 women in 30 days or less). Real skills come with cold approaching THE RIGHT WAY........any moron can get rejected 20 times a day.
It easy to just steal tips from here but you are missing the rest of the puzzle to complete the whole picture. IT begins with research though, actual testing in the field and then re-evaluation to fine tune. TEST yourself when u get the desired results.
But coaching 1 on 1 can come in numerous forms............virtual (online) semi-virtual- phone consultation, live in the field from your wingman, Live from an instructor (costly), boot camps, books/guides/programs/dvd's/pod casts.
how serious are you and how much money are you willing to spend and lastly what do you wish to gain in the end.
I would start with research, reading, then buy a book, then a program, then sign up to which ever no cold approach enviroment you desire.
U need to write stuff down (journal, blogg) and measure your success.