"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
One-Itis
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
songs like i dont like to sleep alone
and all i need is the air that i breathe.
hahaha.
yeah my afc days
simple answer to a simple question
dont listen to these songs. keep everything that belongs to her or reminds you of her in a box and stash it somewhere. try to get on with your life... you mean its not possible for you to pursue this girl? mine was a hopeless case.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
pretty afc.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
i wish i took more care in my past relationship.
go for it if you can
really. shy girls are usually the best for long term relationships.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
whatever she may be, there'll always be someone else out there who is a notch above her
think of yourself as the great catch.
but be prepared to lose her
in this way, you wont overanalyze things and you'll be more relaxed around her
look at the last phrase from my signature... all the best mate
God damn. Do something with your ****ing lives. Daydreaming about girls all ****ing day... jesus. Do you pray to god to get some ***** too?
Get some self respect and stop getting by, you ****.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
haha i hate reading that beacuse[and i guess it should do this] it ALWAYS makes me question if I am settling for less than I'm worth. If i follow this rule with all my heart...I'd never get pvssy.
Don't listen to those songs, refrain from talking about ehr to others and I def suggest talk/flirting with other girls jsut as practice.
I say you should chill for a week before you move in for the kill. Doesn't seem like your oneitis is THAT bad, so a weeka dn you should eb clear fi you TALK TO OTHER GIRLS.
also the msot important thing: be active. Tomorrow, so something with people afterschool, when you get home pop in a movie[not a love movie!] and then do your homework, and pass the **** out. With dinner in there somewhere lol.
goodluck bro.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
I pray for pvssy . . .
I always wanted a cat.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Man, I can remember listening to songs that reminded me of chicks after they'd reject me..ahh those were the days..haha Kinda weird how you can change soo fast..Anyway, just stay away from the Emo..it'll kill you
neobrood
Senior Don Juan
It happens... People associate songs with a girl... It happened to me to before. I played the song when I was getting drunk and I think I remember singing it in a drunken tone of voice and all my pals were laughin at me and we all laughed together and its fun...
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.