"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OMG she has a kid

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Wow I have been shocked today. I am a soph in hs and have been going out with a senior for the past two weeks at this tech school. Anyways, today she was acting weird then I find out she has a 9 month kid. What is a dj to do? I want to live by a code of honor and it would seem cruel to next her because of this. I've also been on SS for a while and it has help me got my gf. What would a good dj do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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redspicyflag said:
Wow I have been shocked today. I am a soph in hs and have been going out with a senior for the past two weeks at this tech school. Anyways, today she was acting weird then I find out she has a 9 month kid. What is a dj to do? I want to live by a code of honor and it would seem cruel to next her because of this. I've also been on SS for a while and it has help me got my gf. What would a good dj do?
Why would it be cruel to next her because of the kid? You have every right to walk away. You don't have to be her knight in shining armor. She made a mistake and she's dealing with it. You are under no obligation to help her with HER OWN problem. If anything, it would be cruel to a man to expect much of him when she is mothering someone else's child.
 

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Whats this code of honor crap?

If she has some trait you don't like then you don't have to stay with her. The only thing you need to do is just be upfront about your decision.
 

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Yeah, now that i look at it, i should dump her. Its shocking for me to find this out after 3 weeks. The dj would do that I guess, but since I'm new at dj'ing it is harder to make decisions like this. Im 2 years younger and this is too much trouble for me to go through. I thought I was going to get this HB7.5 in a LTR, but now this has popped up, I will have to make a hard decision.
 

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She's probably easy booty but also easy drama baggage that'll come with it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Back out of the relationship now. Have some respect for her and her kid. Besides, Don Juans don't babysit.

:nono: :nono: :nono: :nono: :nono:
 

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What's wrong with her having a kid? Stick around have some good sex and when you feel like breaking it of do so.

You're not marrying this girl you are just sleeping with her, she hasn't asked you to father her child, in fact she hasn't even mentioned him for 3 weeks. Just hang around and enjoy yourself for a while, if she begins to get to clingy then leave.

Plus you will be dating a MILF.
 

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redspicyflag said:
Wow I have been shocked today. I am a soph in hs and have been going out with a senior for the past two weeks at this tech school. Anyways, today she was acting weird then I find out she has a 9 month kid. What is a dj to do? I want to live by a code of honor and it would seem cruel to next her because of this. I've also been on SS for a while and it has help me got my gf. What would a good dj do?
You've gotta be kidding me. You're in high school. She's in high school. She has a kid. She didn't even tell you about it right away. Get away from her, she's bad news.

A code of honor? Here's a code of honor for you - Live for you and look out for your own bests interests. That's the most honorable thing you can do. If everyone was honest, both to themselves and to others, about how their behavior is driven by self-interest, the world would a much better place.

My advice to you: Go get seven other girlfriends who don't have kids. Kick out the ones you don't like, even if its for the smallest reason, and replace them. Don't date any of them exclusively for another decade.
 

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Just keep having sex with her....

She has a kid, she is not an evil demon from a hell dimension that will suck you into the under verse and torture you for all eternity. These guys are over reacting, keep her around for sex don’t get into a LTR whatever you do and don’t burn your f*cking bridges.

Who knows one year down the track you might have a sex drought and then you will be happy you didn’t fu*k her off.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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