MacAvoy
Banned
Who's Nunya?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
tick37 said:Don't waste anymore time on her. You're acting disparate. Forget her.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tick37 said:If you don't want to take anyone's advice, then stop posting. I'm done with you!
It has to be a joke. Anyone interested in seeing the rest of the chat?Phyzzle said:
Yeah, I had to hear from my first girlfriend in high-school that her father molested her. I wanted to kill the guy, but not much I could do. She was really messed up. She slit her wrists at a party one time.DonGorgon said:MOLESTATION IS EXTREMELY COMMON PLACE IN AMERICA BUT MANY WoMEN JUST LIve WITH IT and seldom tell any one about it.... And the sad part is that as males become more desperate due to the growing rift between males and females you can expect too see much more advantage being taken of young females in their own homes by family members etc.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
MANY FATHERS and BROTHERS SECRETLY VIEW THE females in their family as possessions.. and believe they have some right to them sexually . many female celebrities have come out and admitted that they were molested including Oprah...My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, I had to hear from my first girlfriend in high-school that her father molested her. I wanted to kill the guy, but not much I could do. She was really messed up. She slit her wrists at a party one time.
DonGorgon said:MANY FATHERS and BROTHERS SECRETLY VIEW THE females in their family as possessions.. and believe they have some right to them sexually . many female celebrities have come out and admitted that they were molested including Oprah...
Well.. I say do a hit and run....My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, so what do you think about the chat bro? We have confirmed to meet each other at the bar. I'm just going in with the frame that I never even had this chat with her.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
So you don't think she was making it up and it's true? What kind of test?Nighthawk said:I don't think it was a joke... a test, yes.
Nighthawk said:She is trying to Friend Zone you, but backs off a little when you're ****y and funny. Ignore her for a week.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.