MacAvoy
Banned
Who's Nunya?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
tick37 said:Don't waste anymore time on her. You're acting disparate. Forget her.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
tick37 said:If you don't want to take anyone's advice, then stop posting. I'm done with you!
It has to be a joke. Anyone interested in seeing the rest of the chat?Phyzzle said:
Yeah, I had to hear from my first girlfriend in high-school that her father molested her. I wanted to kill the guy, but not much I could do. She was really messed up. She slit her wrists at a party one time.DonGorgon said:MOLESTATION IS EXTREMELY COMMON PLACE IN AMERICA BUT MANY WoMEN JUST LIve WITH IT and seldom tell any one about it.... And the sad part is that as males become more desperate due to the growing rift between males and females you can expect too see much more advantage being taken of young females in their own homes by family members etc.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MANY FATHERS and BROTHERS SECRETLY VIEW THE females in their family as possessions.. and believe they have some right to them sexually . many female celebrities have come out and admitted that they were molested including Oprah...My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, I had to hear from my first girlfriend in high-school that her father molested her. I wanted to kill the guy, but not much I could do. She was really messed up. She slit her wrists at a party one time.
DonGorgon said:MANY FATHERS and BROTHERS SECRETLY VIEW THE females in their family as possessions.. and believe they have some right to them sexually . many female celebrities have come out and admitted that they were molested including Oprah...
Well.. I say do a hit and run....My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, so what do you think about the chat bro? We have confirmed to meet each other at the bar. I'm just going in with the frame that I never even had this chat with her.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
So you don't think she was making it up and it's true? What kind of test?Nighthawk said:I don't think it was a joke... a test, yes.
Nighthawk said:She is trying to Friend Zone you, but backs off a little when you're ****y and funny. Ignore her for a week.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.