MacAvoy
Banned
Who's Nunya?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tick37 said:Don't waste anymore time on her. You're acting disparate. Forget her.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tick37 said:If you don't want to take anyone's advice, then stop posting. I'm done with you!
It has to be a joke. Anyone interested in seeing the rest of the chat?Phyzzle said:
Yeah, I had to hear from my first girlfriend in high-school that her father molested her. I wanted to kill the guy, but not much I could do. She was really messed up. She slit her wrists at a party one time.DonGorgon said:MOLESTATION IS EXTREMELY COMMON PLACE IN AMERICA BUT MANY WoMEN JUST LIve WITH IT and seldom tell any one about it.... And the sad part is that as males become more desperate due to the growing rift between males and females you can expect too see much more advantage being taken of young females in their own homes by family members etc.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MANY FATHERS and BROTHERS SECRETLY VIEW THE females in their family as possessions.. and believe they have some right to them sexually . many female celebrities have come out and admitted that they were molested including Oprah...My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, I had to hear from my first girlfriend in high-school that her father molested her. I wanted to kill the guy, but not much I could do. She was really messed up. She slit her wrists at a party one time.
DonGorgon said:MANY FATHERS and BROTHERS SECRETLY VIEW THE females in their family as possessions.. and believe they have some right to them sexually . many female celebrities have come out and admitted that they were molested including Oprah...
Well.. I say do a hit and run....My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, so what do you think about the chat bro? We have confirmed to meet each other at the bar. I'm just going in with the frame that I never even had this chat with her.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So you don't think she was making it up and it's true? What kind of test?Nighthawk said:I don't think it was a joke... a test, yes.
Nighthawk said:She is trying to Friend Zone you, but backs off a little when you're ****y and funny. Ignore her for a week.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.