MacAvoy
Banned
Who's Nunya?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tick37 said:Don't waste anymore time on her. You're acting disparate. Forget her.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
tick37 said:If you don't want to take anyone's advice, then stop posting. I'm done with you!
It has to be a joke. Anyone interested in seeing the rest of the chat?Phyzzle said:
Yeah, I had to hear from my first girlfriend in high-school that her father molested her. I wanted to kill the guy, but not much I could do. She was really messed up. She slit her wrists at a party one time.DonGorgon said:MOLESTATION IS EXTREMELY COMMON PLACE IN AMERICA BUT MANY WoMEN JUST LIve WITH IT and seldom tell any one about it.... And the sad part is that as males become more desperate due to the growing rift between males and females you can expect too see much more advantage being taken of young females in their own homes by family members etc.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
MANY FATHERS and BROTHERS SECRETLY VIEW THE females in their family as possessions.. and believe they have some right to them sexually . many female celebrities have come out and admitted that they were molested including Oprah...My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, I had to hear from my first girlfriend in high-school that her father molested her. I wanted to kill the guy, but not much I could do. She was really messed up. She slit her wrists at a party one time.
DonGorgon said:MANY FATHERS and BROTHERS SECRETLY VIEW THE females in their family as possessions.. and believe they have some right to them sexually . many female celebrities have come out and admitted that they were molested including Oprah...
Well.. I say do a hit and run....My Name is Nobody said:Yeah, so what do you think about the chat bro? We have confirmed to meet each other at the bar. I'm just going in with the frame that I never even had this chat with her.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
So you don't think she was making it up and it's true? What kind of test?Nighthawk said:I don't think it was a joke... a test, yes.
Nighthawk said:She is trying to Friend Zone you, but backs off a little when you're ****y and funny. Ignore her for a week.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.