You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
11 years ago when I got married.Ok so you're bragging about being a wannabe?
Tell us the story of the last time your killer game led to you fvcking a girl who is above average looking without you having to invest lots of time and energy.
250k milesWomen above 30 have a HIGH chance of being alpha widowed and spinsterish. They demand you bring your best when they offer their worst. I’m not paying full price for a used car with 100,000 miles on it.
Getting married definitely involves a large investment of time and energy.11 years ago when I got married.
Not when you're me.Getting married definitely involves a large investment of time and energy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is facts. Crazy thing is they really do demand more from men. It’s deranged.250k miles
28 is ancient in woman years.To be fair I should have clarified, I’m referring to a 28 year old as being an older woman
Forgot most of you boys are ancient, not looking for any gumjobs/ taking the grandkids ice skating
And the POS requires you out premium gas in it. Lol250k miles
Whoa.. talk about inflation. I was thinking about a bottle of water should do it; store brand, nothing fancy. Damn stimulus caused crazy inflation in 2020/2021... 9 bucks.. geez.According to the Kelley Blue Book for Women, a 38 year old, divorced, with 2 kids and a C-section, is worth 9 dollars.
That's her spending limit on a first date.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That's the part.... More and higher standards. Much more experienced at manipulation and control. A shorter fuse. Expecting more. Some of them want a long extensive "courting" process as well, and they killed it running all these games on men, using men for free dinners and favors and labor.This is facts. Crazy thing is they really do demand more from men. It’s deranged.
A "good" man better have enough self respect to insure he's treated well and he's getting the pvssy.OP as a woman gets older she does things that seem backwards to men,
she becomes bitter/ jaded / princess syndrome / entitled and applies all the tactics she should have applied when she was 20.
she will now punish good men, for giving it away to pookie in her prime
the irony being shes now fading and starting to get hips like a humpa lumpa
If a girl asked me that, I would say “Because of the way the laws are structured, and because society caters to women and their feelings and emotions, and because if the women is not happy, it’s always the man fault, and because sex will be on her terms and I will not be allowed to have a mistress because society frowns on it, I will have no leverage in the marriage or in case of divorce. If you change the divorce laws and allow men to have a side piece in case the women refuses sex and is no longer attractive to the man, I will get married tomorrow.“Do you have a good answer when they ask why you've never been married?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dear Ricky Boy...For fun and practice, yea, it's okay. For an LTR or anything more serious, there can be complications. He's talking about a 28 year old, not 48.
So then logically the options for a girl above 27...just to confirm aswell, even though we advocate, not taking single moms seriously.
women over 27 who havent become a mom, are nuts, Ive dated many and they are sick individuals
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.