OLD flake rate

[skinnyguy]

My rate of getting flaked on from OLD is 50% and this is even after they text to confirm the date the night before.

My flake rate from approaching is practically 0.

The girls who see my pics online tell me I’m handsome. What gives?

I have a date setup on Thursday night with HB 8.5. She’s blowing up my phone but it’s almost guaranteed she will flake.

 

[marmel75]

My flake rate on OLD dropped to near zero when I stopped going ghost up until the date and stayed in contact via a text or two a day.

A lot of guys are doing the same thing these days(flaking/ghosting) apparently and if you dont stay in touch they assume you are one of them and make other plans. Some will reach out but many won't.

I had the same issue as you and when I started doing that it dropped to maybe like 5%

 

[Gan]

Probably because the women in OLD are attention seekers, for the most part. It's easier for them to get the attention and validation they desire online. Once they get that, they'll bounce or keep you around.

 

[Gan]

My flake rate on OLD dropped to near zero when I stopped going ghost up until the date and stayed in contact via a text or two a day.

A lot of guys are doing the same thing these days apparently and if you dont stay in touch they assume you are one of them and make other plans. Some will reach out but many won't.

This actually makes a lot of sense. Duly noted.

 

[mr. kennedy]

My flake rate on OLD dropped to near zero when I stopped going ghost up until the date and stayed in contact via a text or two a day.

This is so true. That's why it's best to set a date as fast as possible. More than 2 days away and there's a good chance it doesn't happen.

 

[R.U.G.]

If you setup a date within four days, they do not flake. Anything longer, then something better may come along; thus they flake. I disagree on confirming. If the woman is interested enough in you, she'll confirm for you. The only flakes/cancellations I've had was when they were away and we set up something for when she got back into town. Since those issues, I just wait until they get back into town and then reach out. Looks better and looks like you have options. You never want to be seen as a man who's waiting around for a woman.