Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
Anyone from Oklahoma especially Stillwater or Tulsa? It would be cool to meet a real DJ in person or just know someone in person who is on this site.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Oklahoma DJ's
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
if you ever come to Tulsa pm me before you do.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
yo dude, I live in Fayetteville(ark) only about an hour and half from your area.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
waterboytke222
New Member
I've got tulsa setup... come on
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
I posted this a while ago. Its been a long time since I have been to the site. I now live full time in Tulsa. However, currently now in Tulsa, all the girls I know either have boyfriends, or do not live in Tulsa 
Pilot
Don Juan
Oklahoma City DJ-in-training
I'm new to the area, don't really know a lot of people - all the guys I know are horrible with approaching/talking to women. It'd be cool to hang out with some guys who aren't idiots. Anybody else in OKC area?
I'm new to the area, don't really know a lot of people - all the guys I know are horrible with approaching/talking to women. It'd be cool to hang out with some guys who aren't idiots. Anybody else in OKC area?
Hypoxia II
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OKC here.. Work in Tulsa.. I can go to either.
terminator911
Master Don Juan
Anyone in OKC area? Looking for some experienced Dons to hang out with and maybe get out there for some good hunting :crackup:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.