Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
Anyone from Oklahoma especially Stillwater or Tulsa? It would be cool to meet a real DJ in person or just know someone in person who is on this site.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oklahoma DJ's
- Thread starter Mr. Delicious
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
if you ever come to Tulsa pm me before you do.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
yo dude, I live in Fayetteville(ark) only about an hour and half from your area.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
waterboytke222
New Member
I've got tulsa setup... come on
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
I posted this a while ago. Its been a long time since I have been to the site. I now live full time in Tulsa. However, currently now in Tulsa, all the girls I know either have boyfriends, or do not live in Tulsa 
Pilot
Don Juan
Oklahoma City DJ-in-training
I'm new to the area, don't really know a lot of people - all the guys I know are horrible with approaching/talking to women. It'd be cool to hang out with some guys who aren't idiots. Anybody else in OKC area?
I'm new to the area, don't really know a lot of people - all the guys I know are horrible with approaching/talking to women. It'd be cool to hang out with some guys who aren't idiots. Anybody else in OKC area?
Hypoxia II
Don Juan
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OKC here.. Work in Tulsa.. I can go to either.
terminator911
Master Don Juan
Anyone in OKC area? Looking for some experienced Dons to hang out with and maybe get out there for some good hunting :crackup:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.