"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oklahoma DJ's

Mr. Delicious

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Anyone from Oklahoma especially Stillwater or Tulsa? It would be cool to meet a real DJ in person or just know someone in person who is on this site.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Intense

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I'm from Kansas City but I make the occasional trip to Tulsa.
 
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yo dude, I live in Fayetteville(ark) only about an hour and half from your area.
 

gr8tnezz

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I'm in OKC and have a pretty good base going here. If there are any in my area, reply because there is alot of work we need to be doing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mr. Delicious

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I posted this a while ago. Its been a long time since I have been to the site. I now live full time in Tulsa. However, currently now in Tulsa, all the girls I know either have boyfriends, or do not live in Tulsa :(
 

Pilot

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Oklahoma City DJ-in-training :)

I'm new to the area, don't really know a lot of people - all the guys I know are horrible with approaching/talking to women. It'd be cool to hang out with some guys who aren't idiots. Anybody else in OKC area?
 

Hypoxia II

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OKC here.. Work in Tulsa.. I can go to either.
 

terminator911

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Anyone in OKC area? Looking for some experienced Dons to hang out with and maybe get out there for some good hunting :crackup:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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