Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
Anyone from Oklahoma especially Stillwater or Tulsa? It would be cool to meet a real DJ in person or just know someone in person who is on this site.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Oklahoma DJ's
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
if you ever come to Tulsa pm me before you do.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
yo dude, I live in Fayetteville(ark) only about an hour and half from your area.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
waterboytke222
New Member
I've got tulsa setup... come on
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
I posted this a while ago. Its been a long time since I have been to the site. I now live full time in Tulsa. However, currently now in Tulsa, all the girls I know either have boyfriends, or do not live in Tulsa 
Pilot
Don Juan
Oklahoma City DJ-in-training
I'm new to the area, don't really know a lot of people - all the guys I know are horrible with approaching/talking to women. It'd be cool to hang out with some guys who aren't idiots. Anybody else in OKC area?
I'm new to the area, don't really know a lot of people - all the guys I know are horrible with approaching/talking to women. It'd be cool to hang out with some guys who aren't idiots. Anybody else in OKC area?
Hypoxia II
Don Juan
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OKC here.. Work in Tulsa.. I can go to either.
terminator911
Master Don Juan
Anyone in OKC area? Looking for some experienced Dons to hang out with and maybe get out there for some good hunting :crackup:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.