"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Okcupid glitch?

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Has anyone experienced this before? I'll have random moments where no one views my profile and/or get no replies even if I'm messaging a bunch of women.

Then a day or two later my inbox blows up with replies to my messages all at the same time. I've even had one woman say that she was just now getting my message which was sent days sometimes a week ago.

It's like okc holds off messages, maybe an overload in their server? Happens often but not too frequent. Used to think women just weren't interested until I noticed the pattern of my inbox within seconds being filled with replies.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you visit the page it shoots your profile pic to the top of the "list" so more women see your profile when you are active. Think this explains what you are seeing?
 

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SgtSplacker said:
If you visit the page it shoots your profile pic to the top of the "list" so more women see your profile when you are active. Think this explains what you are seeing?
If I visit what page?
 

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For anyone that may be experiencing this as well, I figured it out.

Talked to a friend who knows someone that recently was asked to become a moderator for okc. Apparently they ask random people who've been on for a while and haven't broken any rules if they'd like to become one.

He says my account is most likely suspended because it was flagged for something. This could be for spamming (sending out copy/paste messages) which honestly I do, something with one of my pictures or profile.

Okc does not inform you, they just que your profile to be checked for the complaint and it's either allowed to be active or gets taken down but in the interim your messages don't get delivered and your profile is hard to find.

I just disabled it and made another, almost identical and have been getting replies/page views. Definitely interesting to figure all this out.
 

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yup, they asked me to be a mod, and then later I have the same "glitch" a woman can just be believed by them instantly and then you're guilty as charged, too bad we can't get them flagged, they are immune
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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