"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Okcupid glitch?

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Has anyone experienced this before? I'll have random moments where no one views my profile and/or get no replies even if I'm messaging a bunch of women.

Then a day or two later my inbox blows up with replies to my messages all at the same time. I've even had one woman say that she was just now getting my message which was sent days sometimes a week ago.

It's like okc holds off messages, maybe an overload in their server? Happens often but not too frequent. Used to think women just weren't interested until I noticed the pattern of my inbox within seconds being filled with replies.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you visit the page it shoots your profile pic to the top of the "list" so more women see your profile when you are active. Think this explains what you are seeing?
 
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SgtSplacker said:
If you visit the page it shoots your profile pic to the top of the "list" so more women see your profile when you are active. Think this explains what you are seeing?
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If I visit what page?
 
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For anyone that may be experiencing this as well, I figured it out.

Talked to a friend who knows someone that recently was asked to become a moderator for okc. Apparently they ask random people who've been on for a while and haven't broken any rules if they'd like to become one.

He says my account is most likely suspended because it was flagged for something. This could be for spamming (sending out copy/paste messages) which honestly I do, something with one of my pictures or profile.

Okc does not inform you, they just que your profile to be checked for the complaint and it's either allowed to be active or gets taken down but in the interim your messages don't get delivered and your profile is hard to find.

I just disabled it and made another, almost identical and have been getting replies/page views. Definitely interesting to figure all this out.
 
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yup, they asked me to be a mod, and then later I have the same "glitch" a woman can just be believed by them instantly and then you're guilty as charged, too bad we can't get them flagged, they are immune
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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