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Banned
fvck game, i'm not gonna touch a girl for months after this
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i don't have any sores. i do have a very slight cavity, but it's not really a cavity.Originally posted by zerocelcius
Do you have any open wounds in your mouth, or cavities?
If not don't worrie to hard.
If she tries to get a hold of you again explain you were upset and calmly ask if she has any STD's.
It is a crime not to tell sombody about your STD before exposing them to it. So I doub't she wouldn't tell you, but than again she didn't tell you about being on her period.
It also could be that she was on the very edge of her period, and the flow of lubercations had some blood in it that, but wasn't actually full on bleeding.
There are many factors here, and stressing will only drive you insane. try to relax or sleep, and stop worring so hard.
They have saliva tests for some STD's and HIV if you don't want to do the blood tests.
Hopfully that makes you feel some what better.
But first one question if you know she gets around why did you go down on her?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Chlamydia is a bacteria but it isn't an HIV.Originally posted by Inquire
but isnt like chamidia or wutever a bacteria?
yeah, i went to ask the resident admin if he had listerine, and this is exactly what he said to me pretty much, he was like "ah...red wings" fvck red wingsOriginally posted by Derek Flint
Congratulations on getting your first set of "Red Wings"
hey, thanks, that's a tiny bit comforting...i'm still scared sh!tless, and i really won't be completely comfortable until i know for sure...which is in about 3 hrs when the health center opens upOriginally posted by zerocelcius
that is pretty funny actually. "red wings ha"...
Listen I could be wrong here but the way it looks is this.
She didn't know about the period, and it sounds like I said, it was mixed with her natural lube. So the chances of blood to blood contact is slim. Since you don't have an open wound and only a slight cavity. The chances go down again.
She said no to having an STD, and replying to that in a soft voice is understandable cause of the harshness of the situation. That is very personal but prudent question. Although you had the right to ask I am sure it took her back, which would explain the quit voice.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.