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fvck game, i'm not gonna touch a girl for months after this
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
i don't have any sores. i do have a very slight cavity, but it's not really a cavity.Originally posted by zerocelcius
Do you have any open wounds in your mouth, or cavities?
If not don't worrie to hard.
If she tries to get a hold of you again explain you were upset and calmly ask if she has any STD's.
It is a crime not to tell sombody about your STD before exposing them to it. So I doub't she wouldn't tell you, but than again she didn't tell you about being on her period.
It also could be that she was on the very edge of her period, and the flow of lubercations had some blood in it that, but wasn't actually full on bleeding.
There are many factors here, and stressing will only drive you insane. try to relax or sleep, and stop worring so hard.
They have saliva tests for some STD's and HIV if you don't want to do the blood tests.
Hopfully that makes you feel some what better.
But first one question if you know she gets around why did you go down on her?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Chlamydia is a bacteria but it isn't an HIV.Originally posted by Inquire
but isnt like chamidia or wutever a bacteria?
yeah, i went to ask the resident admin if he had listerine, and this is exactly what he said to me pretty much, he was like "ah...red wings" fvck red wingsOriginally posted by Derek Flint
Congratulations on getting your first set of "Red Wings"
hey, thanks, that's a tiny bit comforting...i'm still scared sh!tless, and i really won't be completely comfortable until i know for sure...which is in about 3 hrs when the health center opens upOriginally posted by zerocelcius
that is pretty funny actually. "red wings ha"...
Listen I could be wrong here but the way it looks is this.
She didn't know about the period, and it sounds like I said, it was mixed with her natural lube. So the chances of blood to blood contact is slim. Since you don't have an open wound and only a slight cavity. The chances go down again.
She said no to having an STD, and replying to that in a soft voice is understandable cause of the harshness of the situation. That is very personal but prudent question. Although you had the right to ask I am sure it took her back, which would explain the quit voice.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.