"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Oh it hurts, hahaha

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-Msn convo.


Girl: can i ask u something
Me: ask me something
Girl: k im only gonna ask cause i totally think of u as a super close buddy and i totally feel comfortable talking to u
Girl: k?
Me: Sure
Girl: :) k
Me: oh god
Girl: haha shut up
Girl: u make me nervous
Me: hahha the anxiety
Girl: and not wanna ask
Girl: hahah
Girl: ok
Girl: have u ever been in love?




Before that we were jokin about her staring at my pictures on myspace and me having her picture as my wallpaper.


I tried so hard on that one too!!! Ughhh, it does hurt. :cry:

:cuss:




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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I dont undestand the question if there was one.
 
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There isnt one.....looks like I just got friend zoned.
 
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omg, don't you guy's see it?


Im trying to game this chick for 2-3 weeks and I was doing good and then she did the "real close buddy" line


I got friend zoned.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have a suspicion you were already a friend before this convo
 
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I think its worse when you actually get referred to as one.
 
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Texting, email, MSN, whatever you want to call it... is never an excuse for the real thing, of being in person. Those are the exact types of questions you want a girl asking you in PERSON.

Yes, I've emailed girls back and forth (wouldn't do it again) but that in ITSELF is a friendzone type of thing.

Why would you want to be some girl's chatting buddy?
 
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Texting, email, MSN, whatever you want to call it... is never an excuse for the real thing, of being in person. Those are the exact types of questions you want a girl asking you in PERSON.

Yes, I've emailed girls back and forth (wouldn't do it again) but that in ITSELF is a friendzone type of thing.

Why would you want to be some girl's chatting buddy?
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True.
 
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pvf94 said:
Girl: k im only gonna ask cause i totally think of u as a super close buddy and i totally feel comfortable talking to u
Girl: k?
Me: Sure
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That's a fiend zone.


Should be:


Girl: k?
Me: NO!!!!
Girl: What?? Why?
Me: .......................... going off line.



Later on I might tell her I had my female friend over who is a really super close buddy of mine and we got really super close right when you were going to ask your question. My bad. What was the question again?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stuntmann said:
That's a fiend zone.


Should be:


Girl: k?
Me: NO!!!!
Girl: What?? Why?
Me: .......................... going off line.



Later on I might tell her I had my female friend over who is a really super close buddy of mine and we got really super close right when you were going to ask your question. My bad. What was the question again?
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Where was ya when I needed you.



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