"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Oh it hurts, hahaha

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-Msn convo.


Girl: can i ask u something
Me: ask me something
Girl: k im only gonna ask cause i totally think of u as a super close buddy and i totally feel comfortable talking to u
Girl: k?
Me: Sure
Girl: :) k
Me: oh god
Girl: haha shut up
Girl: u make me nervous
Me: hahha the anxiety
Girl: and not wanna ask
Girl: hahah
Girl: ok
Girl: have u ever been in love?




Before that we were jokin about her staring at my pictures on myspace and me having her picture as my wallpaper.


I tried so hard on that one too!!! Ughhh, it does hurt. :cry:

:cuss:




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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I dont undestand the question if there was one.
 

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There isnt one.....looks like I just got friend zoned.
 

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omg, don't you guy's see it?


Im trying to game this chick for 2-3 weeks and I was doing good and then she did the "real close buddy" line


I got friend zoned.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have a suspicion you were already a friend before this convo
 

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I think its worse when you actually get referred to as one.
 

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Texting, email, MSN, whatever you want to call it... is never an excuse for the real thing, of being in person. Those are the exact types of questions you want a girl asking you in PERSON.

Yes, I've emailed girls back and forth (wouldn't do it again) but that in ITSELF is a friendzone type of thing.

Why would you want to be some girl's chatting buddy?
 

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Texting, email, MSN, whatever you want to call it... is never an excuse for the real thing, of being in person. Those are the exact types of questions you want a girl asking you in PERSON.

Yes, I've emailed girls back and forth (wouldn't do it again) but that in ITSELF is a friendzone type of thing.

Why would you want to be some girl's chatting buddy?

True.
 

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pvf94 said:
Girl: k im only gonna ask cause i totally think of u as a super close buddy and i totally feel comfortable talking to u
Girl: k?
Me: Sure

That's a fiend zone.


Should be:


Girl: k?
Me: NO!!!!
Girl: What?? Why?
Me: .......................... going off line.



Later on I might tell her I had my female friend over who is a really super close buddy of mine and we got really super close right when you were going to ask your question. My bad. What was the question again?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stuntmann said:
That's a fiend zone.


Should be:


Girl: k?
Me: NO!!!!
Girl: What?? Why?
Me: .......................... going off line.



Later on I might tell her I had my female friend over who is a really super close buddy of mine and we got really super close right when you were going to ask your question. My bad. What was the question again?

Where was ya when I needed you.



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