"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh it hurts, hahaha

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-Msn convo.


Girl: can i ask u something
Me: ask me something
Girl: k im only gonna ask cause i totally think of u as a super close buddy and i totally feel comfortable talking to u
Girl: k?
Me: Sure
Girl: :) k
Me: oh god
Girl: haha shut up
Girl: u make me nervous
Me: hahha the anxiety
Girl: and not wanna ask
Girl: hahah
Girl: ok
Girl: have u ever been in love?




Before that we were jokin about her staring at my pictures on myspace and me having her picture as my wallpaper.


I tried so hard on that one too!!! Ughhh, it does hurt. :cry:

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I dont undestand the question if there was one.
 
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There isnt one.....looks like I just got friend zoned.
 
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omg, don't you guy's see it?


Im trying to game this chick for 2-3 weeks and I was doing good and then she did the "real close buddy" line


I got friend zoned.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have a suspicion you were already a friend before this convo
 
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I think its worse when you actually get referred to as one.
 
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Texting, email, MSN, whatever you want to call it... is never an excuse for the real thing, of being in person. Those are the exact types of questions you want a girl asking you in PERSON.

Yes, I've emailed girls back and forth (wouldn't do it again) but that in ITSELF is a friendzone type of thing.

Why would you want to be some girl's chatting buddy?
 
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Texting, email, MSN, whatever you want to call it... is never an excuse for the real thing, of being in person. Those are the exact types of questions you want a girl asking you in PERSON.

Yes, I've emailed girls back and forth (wouldn't do it again) but that in ITSELF is a friendzone type of thing.

Why would you want to be some girl's chatting buddy?
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True.
 
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pvf94 said:
Girl: k im only gonna ask cause i totally think of u as a super close buddy and i totally feel comfortable talking to u
Girl: k?
Me: Sure
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That's a fiend zone.


Should be:


Girl: k?
Me: NO!!!!
Girl: What?? Why?
Me: .......................... going off line.



Later on I might tell her I had my female friend over who is a really super close buddy of mine and we got really super close right when you were going to ask your question. My bad. What was the question again?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stuntmann said:
That's a fiend zone.


Should be:


Girl: k?
Me: NO!!!!
Girl: What?? Why?
Me: .......................... going off line.



Later on I might tell her I had my female friend over who is a really super close buddy of mine and we got really super close right when you were going to ask your question. My bad. What was the question again?
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Where was ya when I needed you.



lmao
 
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