"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Oh it hurts, hahaha

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-Msn convo.


Girl: can i ask u something
Me: ask me something
Girl: k im only gonna ask cause i totally think of u as a super close buddy and i totally feel comfortable talking to u
Girl: k?
Me: Sure
Girl: :) k
Me: oh god
Girl: haha shut up
Girl: u make me nervous
Me: hahha the anxiety
Girl: and not wanna ask
Girl: hahah
Girl: ok
Girl: have u ever been in love?




Before that we were jokin about her staring at my pictures on myspace and me having her picture as my wallpaper.


I tried so hard on that one too!!! Ughhh, it does hurt. :cry:

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I dont undestand the question if there was one.
 
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There isnt one.....looks like I just got friend zoned.
 
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omg, don't you guy's see it?


Im trying to game this chick for 2-3 weeks and I was doing good and then she did the "real close buddy" line


I got friend zoned.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have a suspicion you were already a friend before this convo
 
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I think its worse when you actually get referred to as one.
 
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Texting, email, MSN, whatever you want to call it... is never an excuse for the real thing, of being in person. Those are the exact types of questions you want a girl asking you in PERSON.

Yes, I've emailed girls back and forth (wouldn't do it again) but that in ITSELF is a friendzone type of thing.

Why would you want to be some girl's chatting buddy?
 
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Texting, email, MSN, whatever you want to call it... is never an excuse for the real thing, of being in person. Those are the exact types of questions you want a girl asking you in PERSON.

Yes, I've emailed girls back and forth (wouldn't do it again) but that in ITSELF is a friendzone type of thing.

Why would you want to be some girl's chatting buddy?
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True.
 
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pvf94 said:
Girl: k im only gonna ask cause i totally think of u as a super close buddy and i totally feel comfortable talking to u
Girl: k?
Me: Sure
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That's a fiend zone.


Should be:


Girl: k?
Me: NO!!!!
Girl: What?? Why?
Me: .......................... going off line.



Later on I might tell her I had my female friend over who is a really super close buddy of mine and we got really super close right when you were going to ask your question. My bad. What was the question again?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stuntmann said:
That's a fiend zone.


Should be:


Girl: k?
Me: NO!!!!
Girl: What?? Why?
Me: .......................... going off line.



Later on I might tell her I had my female friend over who is a really super close buddy of mine and we got really super close right when you were going to ask your question. My bad. What was the question again?
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Where was ya when I needed you.



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