"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oh it hurts, hahaha

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-Msn convo.


Girl: can i ask u something
Me: ask me something
Girl: k im only gonna ask cause i totally think of u as a super close buddy and i totally feel comfortable talking to u
Girl: k?
Me: Sure
Girl: :) k
Me: oh god
Girl: haha shut up
Girl: u make me nervous
Me: hahha the anxiety
Girl: and not wanna ask
Girl: hahah
Girl: ok
Girl: have u ever been in love?




Before that we were jokin about her staring at my pictures on myspace and me having her picture as my wallpaper.


I tried so hard on that one too!!! Ughhh, it does hurt. :cry:

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I dont undestand the question if there was one.
 
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There isnt one.....looks like I just got friend zoned.
 
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omg, don't you guy's see it?


Im trying to game this chick for 2-3 weeks and I was doing good and then she did the "real close buddy" line


I got friend zoned.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have a suspicion you were already a friend before this convo
 
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I think its worse when you actually get referred to as one.
 
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Texting, email, MSN, whatever you want to call it... is never an excuse for the real thing, of being in person. Those are the exact types of questions you want a girl asking you in PERSON.

Yes, I've emailed girls back and forth (wouldn't do it again) but that in ITSELF is a friendzone type of thing.

Why would you want to be some girl's chatting buddy?
 
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Texting, email, MSN, whatever you want to call it... is never an excuse for the real thing, of being in person. Those are the exact types of questions you want a girl asking you in PERSON.

Yes, I've emailed girls back and forth (wouldn't do it again) but that in ITSELF is a friendzone type of thing.

Why would you want to be some girl's chatting buddy?
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True.
 
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pvf94 said:
Girl: k im only gonna ask cause i totally think of u as a super close buddy and i totally feel comfortable talking to u
Girl: k?
Me: Sure
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That's a fiend zone.


Should be:


Girl: k?
Me: NO!!!!
Girl: What?? Why?
Me: .......................... going off line.



Later on I might tell her I had my female friend over who is a really super close buddy of mine and we got really super close right when you were going to ask your question. My bad. What was the question again?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stuntmann said:
That's a fiend zone.


Should be:


Girl: k?
Me: NO!!!!
Girl: What?? Why?
Me: .......................... going off line.



Later on I might tell her I had my female friend over who is a really super close buddy of mine and we got really super close right when you were going to ask your question. My bad. What was the question again?
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Where was ya when I needed you.



lmao
 
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