"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Oh Fvvvcccckkkkkk!!!!!!!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
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i expect a depoist to be made in my paypal account within seven days
KarmaSutra
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Looks like a new sheriff is in town boys. Who made you the moral measuring stick? Also, learn to fvcking read. He put his EX on the back burner and now she's pissed she got delegated to FB ( that means Fvck Buddy ).Obsidian said:
Genius.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Anyway, enough time has passed, and I needed to get laid. We're both ok with the fvckbuddy thing, and she has HALF a uterus, and one kidney, and is physically and medically "unable" to get pregnant, hence the unprotected sex. She may very well be lying, but it doesnt sound like it. She is a VERY good liar, though.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Thomas94305
Senior Don Juan
1) You need to get some simple status on if she's pregnant. Just be calm. If she's pregnant, then she should take an EPT. If she is, then she should go to a doctor for general care. If she doesn't do these things, then you can openly ask her what's wrong? See what her reaction is. If anything, just wait a couple of months, and her game is over. She doesn't have anywhere to go with this. She's either telling the truth, or playing a game. Give her some rope and see if she hangs herself.
2) You don't have to tell her this part. But, as the dust settles on the pregnancy thing, decide for yourself if you want anything to do with her.. FB or not, given the drama. You know the advice you'll get here on this issue. Decide for yourself.
It means she has serious medical problems, and half her uterus was removed, along with one kidney. Its nothing weird, you cant tell. it looks and feels fine. The chances of her getting pregnant are astronomical though. The doctor will most likely recomend an abortion for safety reasons. It could kill her.Obsidian said: