"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh Fvvvcccckkkkkk!!!!!!!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
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Looks like a new sheriff is in town boys. Who made you the moral measuring stick? Also, learn to fvcking read. He put his EX on the back burner and now she's pissed she got delegated to FB ( that means Fvck Buddy ).Obsidian said:
Genius.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Anyway, enough time has passed, and I needed to get laid. We're both ok with the fvckbuddy thing, and she has HALF a uterus, and one kidney, and is physically and medically "unable" to get pregnant, hence the unprotected sex. She may very well be lying, but it doesnt sound like it. She is a VERY good liar, though.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Thomas94305
Senior Don Juan
1) You need to get some simple status on if she's pregnant. Just be calm. If she's pregnant, then she should take an EPT. If she is, then she should go to a doctor for general care. If she doesn't do these things, then you can openly ask her what's wrong? See what her reaction is. If anything, just wait a couple of months, and her game is over. She doesn't have anywhere to go with this. She's either telling the truth, or playing a game. Give her some rope and see if she hangs herself.
2) You don't have to tell her this part. But, as the dust settles on the pregnancy thing, decide for yourself if you want anything to do with her.. FB or not, given the drama. You know the advice you'll get here on this issue. Decide for yourself.
It means she has serious medical problems, and half her uterus was removed, along with one kidney. Its nothing weird, you cant tell. it looks and feels fine. The chances of her getting pregnant are astronomical though. The doctor will most likely recomend an abortion for safety reasons. It could kill her.Obsidian said: