"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Oh Fvvvcccckkkkkk!!!!!!!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
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i expect a depoist to be made in my paypal account within seven days
KarmaSutra
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Looks like a new sheriff is in town boys. Who made you the moral measuring stick? Also, learn to fvcking read. He put his EX on the back burner and now she's pissed she got delegated to FB ( that means Fvck Buddy ).Obsidian said:
Genius.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Anyway, enough time has passed, and I needed to get laid. We're both ok with the fvckbuddy thing, and she has HALF a uterus, and one kidney, and is physically and medically "unable" to get pregnant, hence the unprotected sex. She may very well be lying, but it doesnt sound like it. She is a VERY good liar, though.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thomas94305
Senior Don Juan
1) You need to get some simple status on if she's pregnant. Just be calm. If she's pregnant, then she should take an EPT. If she is, then she should go to a doctor for general care. If she doesn't do these things, then you can openly ask her what's wrong? See what her reaction is. If anything, just wait a couple of months, and her game is over. She doesn't have anywhere to go with this. She's either telling the truth, or playing a game. Give her some rope and see if she hangs herself.
2) You don't have to tell her this part. But, as the dust settles on the pregnancy thing, decide for yourself if you want anything to do with her.. FB or not, given the drama. You know the advice you'll get here on this issue. Decide for yourself.
It means she has serious medical problems, and half her uterus was removed, along with one kidney. Its nothing weird, you cant tell. it looks and feels fine. The chances of her getting pregnant are astronomical though. The doctor will most likely recomend an abortion for safety reasons. It could kill her.Obsidian said: