Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
Fort Lauderdale looks pretty balanced to me in terms of demographics (more non Latinos), less isolating. But the average age seems quite a bit older. Anyone have any experience there?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You'd be surprised. The Guidos flood up everywhere north of Ft. Lauderdale and the prime Miami nightclubs like LIV and Story draw the traveling ones like the plague. Florida is a hub for transplants from NY and NJ. Thankfully it isn't too bad and we are lucky to have actual Italians in Miami (which means actual Italian women as well) but Guido culture loves anything flashy and fancy so they come down here at every turn. Thankfully, I have not run into too many schnookies or Fredos in Miami nightlife unlike the clubs in Manhattan so that is one of the saving graces.There are not a lot of Guidettes in Miami. Miami is far more for the Latinas.
Median age in Broward County (Fort Lauderdale) is similar to Miami-Dade County. Palm Beach County is older than Broward County. Population pyramids are better indicators than population median ages.Fort Lauderdale looks pretty balanced to me in terms of demographics (more non Latinos), less isolating. But the average age seems quite a bit older. Anyone have any experience there?
Some smart comments, I relate to your experience as someone who lives in Miami.If you are facing competition from club promoters, you are gaming at high volume spots like South Beach. The guys winning might dip their feet in the water and go for daygame in South Beach but they are hanging out in more low-key neighborhoods. I refuse to give those out because PUAs read this forum and I have seen the damage they have done to this city. You can see them at spots like The Wharf spam approaching as girls laugh at them, they always hang out in their group of a few guys and are overly dressed for the venue. You'll see them taking laps around the venue just on the ****ing prowl.
Most guys who are naturals that get it, they hang out far away from downtown and know certain strips to go to during certain nights that are promised to bring a lot of approachable sets.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Miami is a majority Hispanic city and Miami-Dade County is also majority Hispanic. The non-Hispanic White population is not that high in Miami-Dade County anymore. I think speaking Spanish would be a necessity for a non-Hispanic White male to try to fit in there.Speaking spanish is a huge plus out here.
Yes, that's true. I think it would be worst in South Beach and Brickell.There is major competition with rich boys.