Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
Fort Lauderdale looks pretty balanced to me in terms of demographics (more non Latinos), less isolating. But the average age seems quite a bit older. Anyone have any experience there?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You'd be surprised. The Guidos flood up everywhere north of Ft. Lauderdale and the prime Miami nightclubs like LIV and Story draw the traveling ones like the plague. Florida is a hub for transplants from NY and NJ. Thankfully it isn't too bad and we are lucky to have actual Italians in Miami (which means actual Italian women as well) but Guido culture loves anything flashy and fancy so they come down here at every turn. Thankfully, I have not run into too many schnookies or Fredos in Miami nightlife unlike the clubs in Manhattan so that is one of the saving graces.There are not a lot of Guidettes in Miami. Miami is far more for the Latinas.
Median age in Broward County (Fort Lauderdale) is similar to Miami-Dade County. Palm Beach County is older than Broward County. Population pyramids are better indicators than population median ages.Fort Lauderdale looks pretty balanced to me in terms of demographics (more non Latinos), less isolating. But the average age seems quite a bit older. Anyone have any experience there?
Some smart comments, I relate to your experience as someone who lives in Miami.If you are facing competition from club promoters, you are gaming at high volume spots like South Beach. The guys winning might dip their feet in the water and go for daygame in South Beach but they are hanging out in more low-key neighborhoods. I refuse to give those out because PUAs read this forum and I have seen the damage they have done to this city. You can see them at spots like The Wharf spam approaching as girls laugh at them, they always hang out in their group of a few guys and are overly dressed for the venue. You'll see them taking laps around the venue just on the ****ing prowl.
Most guys who are naturals that get it, they hang out far away from downtown and know certain strips to go to during certain nights that are promised to bring a lot of approachable sets.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Miami is a majority Hispanic city and Miami-Dade County is also majority Hispanic. The non-Hispanic White population is not that high in Miami-Dade County anymore. I think speaking Spanish would be a necessity for a non-Hispanic White male to try to fit in there.Speaking spanish is a huge plus out here.
Yes, that's true. I think it would be worst in South Beach and Brickell.There is major competition with rich boys.